Sami43 Posted July 14, 2005 Share Posted July 14, 2005 If a guy can't have you (because you are unavailable) but really likes you alot, will he ever tell you? You know, in hopes that maybe you feel the same way?? Or do most men choose to just keep it to themselves? What are some subtle ways a guy will show his feelings for you? Link to post Share on other sites
A Fly onThe Wall Posted July 14, 2005 Share Posted July 14, 2005 No.. he won't tell you .. Why would he ? It's not that we keep it to ourselves it's just that we move on to the next one available . Link to post Share on other sites
millefiori Posted July 14, 2005 Share Posted July 14, 2005 You mean, you have a boyfriend, but despite this there's a friend who may be in love with you and now you're asking us what his signals could be? Why do you ask this for? Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted July 14, 2005 Share Posted July 14, 2005 i dont' know...i've had dudes attempt to steal my woman from right under my nose Link to post Share on other sites
Marshbear Posted July 14, 2005 Share Posted July 14, 2005 No. What would be the point? If you are married or have a b/f he would just be stroking your ego when he gets nothing in return. He will just be your friend if he likes your personality... Link to post Share on other sites
Rosalind Posted July 14, 2005 Share Posted July 14, 2005 Originally posted by A Fly onThe Wall it's just that we move on to the next one available . Hah!...not. What a guy will do who likes you alot, and knows you're unavailable is : start an emotional affair with you. He will act like a real 'pal' to you.... Link to post Share on other sites
A Fly onThe Wall Posted July 14, 2005 Share Posted July 14, 2005 Originally posted by Rosalind Hah!...not. I'm a guy and I move on to the next girl .. I don't start emotional affairs .. Why? Link to post Share on other sites
millefiori Posted July 14, 2005 Share Posted July 14, 2005 Honestly, the only reason that occurs to me now to explain the original posters motivation to post these questions is that it's her who needs an ego stroke. The problem is not the guy, but her. I doubt that a guy who likes you a lot and knows you're unavailable and still hangs around you would start an emotional affair with you. This seems more to be the case where the guy is strung along. Women who string guys along don't have emotional affairs with them. The complete control of the guy is opposed to the excitement that an affair with all its insecurities, doubts, hopes and desires offers Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sami43 Posted July 15, 2005 Author Share Posted July 15, 2005 Wow........... ok. Thanks for your replies, but some of you seem to be misunderstanding my query. I have no desire to have my ego stroked. I really don't need that at all, thank you. The relationship that I am in now, is not going as I would like it to, and I am finding that I have strong feelings for this other person. He knows I am unhappy in my relationship, and seems to have feelings for me as well. I was just asking a simple question to get a guys point of view. Link to post Share on other sites
Rosalind Posted July 15, 2005 Share Posted July 15, 2005 Originally posted by Sami43 The relationship that I am in now, is not going as I would like it to, and I am finding that I have strong feelings for this other person. He knows I am unhappy in my relationship, and seems to have feelings for me as well. Yikes!...well, you've painted an entirely different picture now...and just disregard my previous comments. In future, kindly refrain from omitting PERTINENT details in your original post - you'll receive more relevant responses to your "simple question". Link to post Share on other sites
elijahBailey Posted July 15, 2005 Share Posted July 15, 2005 This is a no-brainer He already knows you're unhappy in your relationship.... If he wants his chance, he'd start to tread on the more sensitive and emotional aspects during his conversation with you. It doesn't matter whether he tells you he likes you or not. You just have to observe what he talks about. And, no, you don't need to ask him. Women, in general, have a natural instinct to perceive Link to post Share on other sites
westernxer Posted July 15, 2005 Share Posted July 15, 2005 Nothing is off limits when a guy wants you... Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sami43 Posted July 16, 2005 Author Share Posted July 16, 2005 Westerner - do you mean nothing is off limits conversation-wise? Link to post Share on other sites
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