missdaisy Posted December 5, 2016 Share Posted December 5, 2016 I knw this mm for months. He is my business partner. He's fun and well mannered.. We clicked right away and since he is way older than me i think of him as a brother tbh. We've been txting every day and talking almost about anything. He loves tease me around and run his hands over my hair. Last month i was away for a cnvention at his state, and we made a plan to meet after his job done. Things were fun, he sent me back to my hotel and apprntly he was hungry so he ordered something. I was pretty knackered (exhausted)* myself, he helpd by mssging my back (it felt really good) i slept right away. When i awke in a middle of night (bc i had a nightmare)* i just found out that he let him self to sleepover. In a morning we made a plan again and for the 2nd time he invited himself to sleepover. I wouldn't really mind tho since the hotel where i stayed a bit spooky, so he stayed. I wouldn't really mind with a carassing my back,* and invding my (sleep) space either but when i was half asleep he tried to hold my hands and cuddling which is kinda out of boundaries. I was pretending that i didn't notice so i wouldn't make things awkward. In the last night i stayed he tried to invite himself again but im pretty clear that he should go home. Last night we talked and he invited me to a vacation . Am i reading things too much? Link to post Share on other sites
minimariah Posted December 5, 2016 Share Posted December 5, 2016 Am i reading things too much? what do you mean? what do you think all of it means? how did you interpret his gestures? do you think he wants more than just sex? Link to post Share on other sites
aileD Posted December 5, 2016 Share Posted December 5, 2016 He's married and trying to get in your pants . It's inappropriate for a married man to sleep over another woman's hotel room and rub her back and hold her hand. Why are you allowing this? Link to post Share on other sites
Survivor12 Posted December 5, 2016 Share Posted December 5, 2016 I have to ask--how is it that you became business partners with a man you had only known a few months? What kind of business? How did you meet him? Do you know his wife & family? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
VeveCakes Posted December 5, 2016 Share Posted December 5, 2016 Allowing a man to sleep with you and massage your back but then telling him holding hands is too much is giving the man completely mixed signals. None of this is OK if you want to maintain a professional business relationship. Do not invite him to sleep in your hotel room unless you plan on having sex with him. Since he is married, you know the right thing is to keep your distance. Quit playing dumb. 5 Link to post Share on other sites
anika99 Posted December 5, 2016 Share Posted December 5, 2016 I agree. You do not let a married man come into your hotel room, massage you, sleep with you and then play innocent when he makes a pass. Everything you are doing with this guy is out of bounds. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
RecentChange Posted December 5, 2016 Share Posted December 5, 2016 Umm stroking your hair was out of bounds. As is all the rest of this. What does it mean!? It means he plans to start cheating on his wife, and start having sex with you. You can be the secret hidden other woman - oh goody. And so far you are going right along with it. Is this what you want? An affair? Link to post Share on other sites
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