SerPundnes Posted January 20, 2017 Share Posted January 20, 2017 Good job, my friend! Link to post Share on other sites
Author alterest Posted March 16, 2017 Author Share Posted March 16, 2017 After some time, here I am again. Well, short story: After what I've said previous she talked to me to asking how things going on and sent me some pictures of her work, asking about it so on. All time it seems that she was bored, cause after while she cease our talk by stop asking things or by short answers. Well, I started to see a new girl and we get into a serious relationship and after couple of hours my ex deleted me on Facebook. Again, our breakup was friendly (as it could be) and she wanted that... As the matter of fact, all breakups was started by her. Someone went through something like that? I know it doesn't care her reasons, but why the f she deleted me if she was the one who wants to split us and went into a wild life of parties and flirts? Thx u all Link to post Share on other sites
keiji Posted March 16, 2017 Share Posted March 16, 2017 I guess she's jealous and she was expecting you to pine for her forever, but that doesn't mean she's discovered some renewed feelings for you. You should forget her and enjoy your new relationship or if you're still thinking about your ex, perhaps reconsider it. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Sweetfish Posted March 16, 2017 Share Posted March 16, 2017 (edited) After some time, here I am again. Well, short story: After what I've said previous she talked to me to asking how things going on and sent me some pictures of her work, asking about it so on. All time it seems that she was bored, cause after while she cease our talk by stop asking things or by short answers. Well, I started to see a new girl and we get into a serious relationship and after couple of hours my ex deleted me on Facebook. Again, our breakup was friendly (as it could be) and she wanted that... As the matter of fact, all breakups was started by her. Someone went through something like that? I know it doesn't care her reasons, but why the f she deleted me if she was the one who wants to split us and went into a wild life of parties and flirts? Thx u all Because again women take a looong time to rationalize. The act of breaking up, the feeling they felt during the break-up, the emotions they went thru... she knows she screwed up or "things didn't work out" so they get stuck in limbo... they are to scared to go back. They know it wont be the same. I use the analogy.. men have no problem buying the old car that they had in highschool... women in general.. CANNOT do this... they perfer new or different. They will buy a 2017 car simply because its a 2017.. MPG, handling, horswpower means nothing. That is the mind set. They refuse to "go back" The new guy or experience could have bad "handling" and it doesnt matter its a new model and a new experience. When it comes to relationships its the same way... they will have feelings for the old, but the emotions keep them from going back to the old. Men many times confused this with.. her being a "B" but most the time its just her in a fog of emotional confusion... thats why you hear often "we can stay friends" to get a least the draw or blast from the past and many times the new BF is not gonna have it. Thats why you go complete NC...anything is code for you being a BACKUP. Point blank. AN ego boost or emotional pillow. The wild life and parties is to drown or block any memories of you. When the breakup happens a "split" happens thats why you hear women cut their hair after a break-up. Its a defense mechanism...it helps resolve guilt. Soon the parties dies down, the excessive pictures on social media slow down... and she will normalize and start rationalizing the break-up. Thats why the dumper grieves differently... but it will be much less painful than your grief. Thats when rebounds are dumped. Breadcrumbs pop-up You get closure emails/letters. But many factors come into play and in this one she probably has not found a better replacement. The dumper is pissed because she is probably in the stage of grieving you were in when the breakup happen. However, that does not mean she has an interest in being with you and now that your with another woman her ego is bruised Edited March 16, 2017 by Sweetfish Link to post Share on other sites
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