summerain Posted December 7, 2016 Posted December 7, 2016 Hi, i recently found out that my BF is excessively searching and looking at my ex-friend's profile on Facebook and Instagram. It is quite disconcerting to me and I do feel abit bitter about this. I am not able to question him this as I snooped through his history.. I do regret doing this but this feeling has been bugging me and I am trying to understand why he does this. He doesnt talk to her or anything because she is already attached. Can anyone give me some insight please?
AmandaDiane Posted December 8, 2016 Posted December 8, 2016 Hi, It is hard to know what is going on without knowing many details. Most importantly, what was his relationship with her before your friendship ended, and what were the circumstances of your friendship ending with her.
DrReplyInRhymes Posted December 8, 2016 Posted December 8, 2016 It could be a case of "Hey, I owe her a thanks!" but never got a chance to tell her. It could be he's planning a surprise party and needs to get in touch with your friends. Maybe he was having a conversation with his friends about the clothes she wears and needed to access that picture multiple times. Maybe he's secretly attracted to her more than you. Could be a myriad of reasons, really. Why not ask him?
O'Malley Posted December 8, 2016 Posted December 8, 2016 Has your boyfriend done anything in the real world that made you feel like you can't trust him or that he isn't a good partner? Keeping it bottled up is going to affect your relationship. You snooped and you were curious, let him know that you're uncomfortable with him following your ex-friend's accounts so closely. Then hear him out. 1
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