spanz1 Posted December 12, 2016 Share Posted December 12, 2016 (edited) i do not know her well enough from your description, but it sounds like she is a loving, caring, basically good woman, who ocassionally needs a good screw with a new man. Then she is good to go for a while and will come back to you and be loving and caring again. If you are ok with a semi-open marriage like that, you are good to go. If even one case of sexual infidelity is a show stopper for you....then you are going to have issues with her. Edited December 12, 2016 by spanz1 Link to post Share on other sites
DKT3 Posted December 12, 2016 Share Posted December 12, 2016 i do not know her well enough from your description, but it sounds like she is a loving, caring, basically good woman, who ocassionally needs a good screw with a new man. Then she is good to go for a while and will come back to you and be loving and caring again. If you are ok with a semi-open marriage like that, you are good to go. If even one case of sexual infidelity is a show stopper for you....then you are going to have issues with her. I don't get that at all, what I get is she is like so many of the women here that post in the OW section. That is hung up on a married man and believing that at some point he will pick her. It ended her marriage, likely ended her follow up relationships and will likely end this one as well. She is stuck, because she can't say no and move on. That is what OP is dealing with, a woman that's with him only because she can't be with who she wants, because of this she will co continue to ignore OPs feelings when it comes to this other guy. She wont dare miss her shot to be with him. OP, this makes you a place holder, can you live with being the next option? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Cephalopod Posted December 14, 2016 Share Posted December 14, 2016 Guess he don't like our advice. Link to post Share on other sites
jstar845 Posted December 14, 2016 Share Posted December 14, 2016 I admire your strength in this situation. It’s understandable that you would feel this way concerning the man and relationship of the woman you are dating. I see you were generous and trust that she contacted him through text message. Thus, I see your concerns now of where this may go in the future as he has been to her home. It’s good that both of you are open and communicate. I believe that most would have the same concerns. Furthermore, another positive is you have made your concerns known to her. Have you thought about discussing with your partner the boundaries in the relationship to keep your relationship?. Link to post Share on other sites
doyathinkso Posted December 14, 2016 Share Posted December 14, 2016 KSProf, the hit and run poster, strikes again. Link to post Share on other sites
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