lost62571 Posted July 15, 2005 Share Posted July 15, 2005 i met this man on a trip that were alone on. we have been talking for days and we are so much alike its scary. I feel like he is my sole mate. i fell like i have know him all my life. we were drawn to each other from hello and not from a sexuall way but an emotional one. all i do is think about him and he tells me the same thing. we are both married with kids. we havent done anything sexuall except I kissed him last night and we both basiclly freaked and ran. It was the best and worst kiss of my life. he feels exactly the same way i do. i feel like im losing my mind and i dont know what to do. well i do know what i am sopossed to do but i just cant help myself. im leaving in 5 days and all i feel is like im going to cry if i cant ever see him again. i start getting depressed when i think of leaving. can someone help me on this? Link to post Share on other sites
Merin Posted July 15, 2005 Share Posted July 15, 2005 My Opinion.. Married= no fooling around with someone who isn't your spouse. If you're unhappy in your marriage then either get some help to make it better and work OR end the marriage BEFORE getting involved with someone else. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted July 15, 2005 Share Posted July 15, 2005 You met, you connected, there was a major spark - Emotionally, physically and spiritually. You kissed, both knew it was wrong (Hense the freakout!) so the rest is a cake walk now. Walk away, put him OUT of your head. Neither of you are too emotionally attached/involved so right now it's easy to never see/speak again. Do this for your marriage, your children, his wife, his children. Is he worth uprooting and ruining innocent lives? Think with your head, not your heart. Good luck, I'm sure this isn't easy. And then, spend some quality time with your husband, recapture some romance and excitement with him. Remember ALL the reason why you fell inlove with him - Do a list of all the good this man brings into your life (Man meaning your husband.) and can you really picture yourself without him??? The grass isn't always greener on the other side of the fence. Many have learned that the hard way, unfortunately. Link to post Share on other sites
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