Nathaly Posted December 13, 2016 Share Posted December 13, 2016 hey guys i want some tips or advices. well i signed up for the GYM and there's a guy who i haven't spoke yet, i don't even know his name but he seems to be an interesting guy and he's cute .. i don't know, i really want to know him better.. but i think he hasn't noticed me :T the other day we made a 1 or 3 sec eyes contact but it doesn't mean anything, and.. i am a SHHY SUPER SHY girl, and i don't even know how to be the one who start it all. HELP Link to post Share on other sites
DarrenB Posted December 13, 2016 Share Posted December 13, 2016 - Approach him after he's finished his workout. There's nothing more irritating that being interrupted midway through a set. - Perhaps ask if he could give you some advice? then, depending on how you feel at the gym, ask him to mentor you? could be a great way to progress. That's all I can offer really. I personally don't see the gym as anything other than a development, fitness sanctuary for myself. Solitude at the gym, for definite. Link to post Share on other sites
loverboy69 Posted December 15, 2016 Share Posted December 15, 2016 Yeah I go to the gym too only to work out. I can't stand those creeps who stare and follow me around. But........ If I were you I'd find a machine next to him and when he glances over at you ask him for his help using the machine. Straight guys love to help attractive ladies. Smile and flirt. If he's not interested you'll know. He'll pull away and you'll get your answer. Link to post Share on other sites
coldworl Posted December 15, 2016 Share Posted December 15, 2016 Personally I dont mind when a person talks to me in the gym even if I am wearing headphones, maybe try and talk to him when he is warming up before the workout or after the workout ask him questions about his goals at the gym or ask him for tips,I would love it if a girl randomly starts talking to me at the gym maybe he feels the same. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Nathaly Posted December 15, 2016 Author Share Posted December 15, 2016 Thank u guys for the advices! i have an update cuz i went to the gym today (i go tuesday-friday) well when i went to the gym he was already there i made my entrance like i didn't see him lol xD i was trying to see if his name was on the list of people who went today but the only boy name was weirdly written so i couldn't get it. well after putting my gym clothes on i went to the treadmill, i always do treadmill first.. and he was running on one of the treadmills.. there are like 8 treadmills side by side and he was using the middle one. i was planning to use one which was 2 treadmills away from him (i didn't want him to think i am desperate or something) but he told me that the treadmills which was on his right side were ''damaged or not working'' so i went to ones on his left side and i was like ''ok girl this is ur opp, USE THE ONE BY HIS SIDE) and i did.. and FOR SOME REASON it seems like i didn't know how to set up the machine. i do know but today it was weird but guess what, he helped me without asking xD he almost fell doing it cuz he was running.. well he ended his workout and then he went out.. later a girl try one of the treadmills i was first planning on using and they were working fine! hmmm ..later he came back to do stationary bike and its weird cuz i haven't seen him coming back after going out but who knows.. any thoughts? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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