D-day happened yesterday for an A ended long ago. Wife wants meeting and inquistion

[cocorico]

Any response or information given to the BS will only make her want MORE. She will never be satisfied with the info given.

 

The only way to end this is to refuse contact, block and walk away and never look back.

 

Absolutely.

 

Having denied already, going back on that now will also add fuel to the fire. Close the door firmly. Do not engage.

[MJJean]

I'm not a lawyer, but don't many cease and desist letters include the party signing an affidavit? In this case, wouldn't that mean you would have to swear under oath that you didn't have an affair and that you're being unfairly/unnecessarily harassed? If so, then what? Someone with experience feel free to correct me!

 

Also, what is your plan when they respond to the cease and desist? I don't believe a cease and desist letter is so cut and dried and may end up opening an even bigger can of worms that you're trying to avoid.

 

This is very elementary but holds true time and time again: honesty is the best policy.

 

A cease and desist letter is sent from the person being harassed to the harasser, usually through a lawyer though that is not required. No affidavit or anything like that necessary.

 

If the harasser refuses to cease and desist, then the harassee has the option of going for a Personal Protection Order (PPO) or a Restraining Order (RO), same thing just different names depending on where you live.

 

When applying for PPO/RO the harassee fills out an affidavit and provides proof of the harassment, the request for no contact, and continued harassment. An officer of the court makes a determination based on the evidence of harassment and either approves or denies the PPO/RO.

 

The affidavit and sworn testimony is only in relation to the harassment, not the reason behind it.