Gui Posted December 21, 2016 Share Posted December 21, 2016 I probably shouldn't have responded, but I did, and now he's in my head again. There's no way it'll work out, but now I've fantasized about inviting him over to my place and everything. I was doing fine and even starting to look at other guys, but the holiday season is bringing back certain memories. For much of our relationship I probably liked him more than he liked me, and I was the one putting in most of the efforts. I know if I do meet up with him, it won't end well for me. Help! Link to post Share on other sites
alexdusty Posted December 21, 2016 Share Posted December 21, 2016 Well what did he say? If you know it wont end well, don't reply. You should block his number and facebook to prevent this happening further. You know you have made it this far as you said you have been looking at other guys. So don't mess it up! I applaud you for doing a good job so far. Link to post Share on other sites
DrReplyInRhymes Posted December 21, 2016 Share Posted December 21, 2016 I'd rather you shoot for what you want than to tell you it won't work and tell you to move on. You've wanted him all along. Make it clear what you want, then get in contact with him. He texted you for a reason, what is it? Hookup? Reconciliation? If he is only looking for a hookup and you don't want that, then you know what you need to do. Link to post Share on other sites
Superchicken Posted December 22, 2016 Share Posted December 22, 2016 If you read any of the posts regarding breaking up, from experienced members, they will all tell you to "CUT ALL TIES". So, guess what you did ?. Now, of course, human nature kicks in, and your emotions for him come flowing back like it was only last week you broke up. Unless you really want a second chance with him, break all ties, and DONT respond to any of his messages. Good luck.. Ted Link to post Share on other sites
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