DeeDeeRamones Posted December 22, 2016 Share Posted December 22, 2016 OK i just found this forum but pure accident but I want to share my story. We have been dating for something like year and a half. It was not almost perfect due to my self destructive nature (drinking and not dealing with emotions at all)..So bit by bit I pusher her away. After that I got a job in a foreign country and we had no contact for almost two months. Well here things get a bit interesting: - during the time away I started doing some therapy that helped me resolved some inner demons. I knew she was seeing someone but I decided to send her an email to explain almost everything point by point... - I got a reply from her she told she is not seeing anyone anymore (guess it was a rebound thing) and we stayed in touch ever since - last week I had a business trip to her country and we meet. And yada yada yada we spent some quality time and night together. And here comes the tricky part; when talking about getting back together it ended up with something like: fix yourself first and then we can talk...Right now its to early. So at the moment I am imagining all sorts of scenarios in my head but I think that everything is just a "false" hope/dream...She just does not want to tell me straight. Of course that's just my feeling but usually I am right. Thanks for reading, any input appreciated. Link to post Share on other sites
kendahke Posted December 22, 2016 Share Posted December 22, 2016 Take her advice. Focus on working with the therapist and give it a good 18 months before you contact her again with any insights. Link to post Share on other sites
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