Should I be friends with her? Is it possible to spark her interest again?

[CapitalSteeze47]

I blew my chance with this girl because I was too shy and lack confidence to talk to her. The signs of interest were there such as long eye contact to the point she looks down or turns away, half smiles, glances, and stares from afar. etc this was every time i had class with her and only did this to me. I made her wait a year, I know I mess up big time. I added her on snapchat and she accepted. we chatted couple of times she will sometimes ignore my messages and other times respond. I decided to ask her out through text (I know is a coward way but had no other choice) over the summer to hang out since I wanted to get over it, I explain why i made her wait and said i was shy, etc. She rejected me with the boyfriend line. There is no boyfriend from what i can tell, I check her social media before asking her out so I won't waste my time on her.

 

 

I'm at a new school and we saw each other again. At first she was ignoring me like I don't exist when I was around her. Later on the school semester she tends to see me or glance at me from time to time. I try not to look at her and ignore her in person since she started acting like that but I think mess up. I also ignored her snapchat stories at times. She tried to message me on snapchat one time, it said her name typing... but no message. I guess she wanted to reach out but decided not to. She is never with a guy around campus mainly by herself.

 

In person she would look from afar but up close she looks straight or to the floor always when I'm around with a neutral face. Last time i saw her she was walking slow and look at me straight at my face then look to the ground with a neutral face. I don't know what's wrong with her makes me feel I did something horrible to her. Maybe because I hurt her pride/ego and made her wait so long and thought I was a player

 

Should I be friends with this girl? I have not chat with her for awhile since May, so I been neutral with her. Is there anyway to spark the interest again? I'm going to try and talk to her in person since we never had a conversation in person only through text. I was thinking being persistent but to the point where is not creepy/stalker vibe just a friendly level and seeing where it goes. Of course I will be talking to other girls. Anyone has been in my position before?

[DumpedGuy9617]

She wants you to talk to her dude. Just go up and say hey, how are you. Don't act like you are interested, but be friendly. She may act like she doesn't want to talk to you - fluff it. Pretend like you don't care and ask how her classes are going or something. If she is interested she will make conversation. If all goes well, ask her if she wants to go to some party or something you know of. If she does, hand her your phone and say, here enter your number and I will text you for the party. If she does you're gold. You've got nothing to lose, she either likes you or doesn't. She wants to see you have balls.

[CapitalSteeze47]

I don't know man, why did she reject me with the bf line? If she wanted to date she had the opportunity. I think she loss interest but has me in case other guys don't like her, etc