lizardking82 Posted December 27, 2016 Share Posted December 27, 2016 1) Do people miss the person that left them or do they miss the feelings the relationship provided? 2) If an ex dumped you, is there any chance they want you back, but don't reach out cause they're afraid of being refused... or they are just not interested and that's why they don't reach out? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
loveiswar101 Posted December 27, 2016 Share Posted December 27, 2016 Simple answer for both questions are .... flip a coin. 1. We all miss people who left us...but that not your worry any more...no ones a mind reader so impossible to know their feelings on you, whats there going to want to dinner...list goes on. 2. If they dumped you and they really really had a 180 and want you back they would reach out. Simple as that. Seems your in a place we all get are all in...why why why. If they dumped you, walk away..if any chance at all they will contact you EXPRESSING they want you back. It xmas my friend, be happy enjoy and leave the past in the past. Merry Xmas. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
umirano Posted December 29, 2016 Share Posted December 29, 2016 1) Do people miss the person that left them or do they miss the feelings the relationship provided? It could be either or. Sometimes even both. Sometimes neither. They're just glad they snapped out of it and the nightmare is over. 2) If an ex dumped you, is there any chance they want you back, but don't reach out cause they're afraid of being refused... or they are just not interested and that's why they don't reach out?Yes there's a chance that they're too afraid of rejection. But my intuition is that generally they're moving on and have no strong interest in rekindling the relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
jaimster Posted December 30, 2016 Share Posted December 30, 2016 (edited) in my case I'm guessing !!! some of both , I missed the comfort , cute sweet younger girl , some MEDIOCRE sex too . guess mostly her NOT so much how she made me feel ,, I felt neglected for a long time , I did most OF the cooking , house work , maintain the cars , always instill in her to take care of her self , promoted healthy living , understanding to her needs and to her family obligations , good provider (bought a home in cash before the marriage ) , she always told me she loved me so much .. so much for words.. mixed feeling if I want to go back with her as much as i missed a woman ! LONG shot .. she would ever decide to give it another go to the relationship " don't think she understands she needs to progress as a wife for reasons mentioned above " her complaints and some : two boys from my previous marriage and unable to have kids with a vacecptomy done years ago.. appreciate the great questions lizardking82.. Edited December 30, 2016 by jaimster 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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