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Husband ok with me spending money on bills and him on himself

FridaL

By FridaL
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Had this ever happened to anyone else before?

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Madame_Noire Established Member

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Maybe is feeling low because of the expense of Christmas and the season. His erratic spending could be him hiding the fact that he feels helpless and inadequate being out of work and compensating by spending money irresponsible.

 

I do not think you are being irrational at all. You sound frustrated with the current situation you are in and the consequential actions of your husband. Is he actively looking for work and keeping you informed about each application?

Mr. Lucky Established Member

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Had this ever happened to anyone else before?

 

More info would be helpful, big difference between $10 and $1,000.

 

Do you both work? How is your financial situation in general? How would he stop you from spending money on yourself?

 

Not enough to go on...

 

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mikeylo Established Member

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Info is not enough but yeah, everything happens to everyone. Some voice it and some don't.

 

You stop paying the bills and spend on yourself.

carhill Established Member

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Is H abrogating his marital financial responsibilities?

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