KAOJ Posted December 28, 2016 Share Posted December 28, 2016 (edited) Greetings! After a nearly two year relationship with a man I love...We had a falling out. He lied to me about who he was with a few months ago. He was with a woman that I always thought flirted with him. We met her with a group of friends months ago and I made it clear i was uncomfortable. He promised me he wasn't interested so we moved on. In November, he told me he was with work buddies but I see him on Facebook (tagged) and I was livid when he was with her and he lied to me. We have tried to work past it and I do try to believe nothing is going on. I got nasty and said hateful things to him and I learned to never speak to someone I love that way. He works 150 miles from home through the week and he says it is just nice to have a friend he can meet up with. We have been taking baby steps with dates, etc.....And trying to fix our relationship. But my behavior lately is shocking me. I don't think I have ever been so jealous and full f grief. I am so full of jealously. He doesn't tell me he is with her, but I look at her social media and I know they are together at certain events and it makes me crazy. I try to believe him but I know he hangs out with her. Recently, he informed me he is moving 2300 miles away for a great job for three years. He asked me what I thought about a long distance relationship and told him we can do it! We spent much of a year apart in our relationship. I am so confused he telling me one thing about working it out, but he acts another way. So as we are working on us, he is still hanging out with this woman! I am so full of jealously that I can't stand it! He won't commit to NYE plans with me and it is making me crazy. I assume he has a taking her. Do you have words of wisdom for this broken girl? Edited December 28, 2016 by KAOJ Link to post Share on other sites
phenix Posted December 28, 2016 Share Posted December 28, 2016 It doesn't seem like you're a big priority to him. He is moving pretty far and it doesn't seem like your opinion mattered. Also the fact that he lies to you also suggest he doesn't take you seriously. All in all I wouldn't be content with this. Too many fish in the sea. Oh and no NYE plans? K you're a backup plan. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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