I want to marry him, He says he's not ready? Please advise.

[sundrop]

Sorry Brandi Renee to leave you hanging,

There is really nohing to report since the break up.

I haven't really talked to him.

He called last Saturday night, asking me if I knew that his best friend and his wife seperated. Whic I thought was a little odd because I had only met her twice for very short periods of time. And he said he thought I would know something since I said I didn't care to talk to her that much because he was a very negative person, and when they came to visit in January I had also told my boyfriend at that time I could see her leaving him because she was so negative about their marriage, that I thought she had already made up her mind it was over. But I haven't talked to her since they left after New Years.

And my dog died last week and he found out through a mutual friend and sent me a text saying he was real sorry and he bought me a nice card and dropped it off and a dog toy for my other dog.

But as far as talking to him about our relationship or seeing him, I haven't

Oh, he also called his neighbor, which happens to be one of my good friends, on Monday during the day asking if everything was ok, and she was like "yes, why wouldn't it be?" and he said he was just making sure eerybody was ok, and she said like who? and he finally asked how I was, and she said she is dong just fine.

 

 

But I am standing my ground. I know what I want and he needs to step up to the plate, if not

there will be someone else out there who will. ( I have to keep telling myself that)

Thanks for checking in one me.

 

How are you?

[RecordProducer]

Originally posted by blind_otter

He knew right away that he wanted to marry me.

 

Did he ever marry you or is it your new guy? It's not over 'till it's over!

 

Some guys often have a problem with admitting themselves that they want to marry the woman. Commitment phobia. Haven't you read so many posts where people say they've been in a relationship prior to marriage for 4 or 5 or more years? There are no rules. You should feel yourself where the relationship is going.