Miss Spider Posted February 15, 2017 Share Posted February 15, 2017 When I said stringing me along, I meant he became distant in August (thus I broke up three times). Every time he blamed work and stress ad reassured be everything was fine. Then, he would talk about our next trip. He kept texting me every day, but he was distant, he was different. And when I finally couldnt take it anymore, I broke up for the third time and of course, he blamed my behaviour and didnt want to continue. Looks like he was just waiting for me to break up. So, if he knew it wasnt right in August, why stringing me along till December? And, as a matter of fact, I never got a closure. In the end, it was more like ghosting. Ghosting after a date or two... fine. After a year and a half together.... (((( And I stalked his fb. He looks miserable in two pictures he put up (skiing with friends). Not that it means much... Oh I see. Yeah, it sucks. Though speculating on 'whys' to get closure will have opposite effect. Maybe he did think it might work out at the time. Ideally people should be all in or all out, but that rarely happens. I don't think your actions are what did it in, but your breaking up certainly didn't help things. That can be a lesson in controlling emotions and giving people space for awhile when you feel they are pulling away. It's hard where feelings are involved. Link to post Share on other sites
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