Courage...

[Gloria25]

I was thinking about the recent thread on first dates and me seeing a recent movie.

 

Just wondering, would you be bold enough to send out a sorta "blind" invite to someone you're trying to reconnect with - and wait to see if they show?

 

I mean, like the movie, imagine sitting there and they don't show

 

Then again, imagine if like if they do show...

[Popsicle]

Yes.

 

You won't know until you try.

 

Alternatively, you could do it the wimpy, but much much more common way and send them a message to try to chat and feel them out first.

 

The good news is that if they don't show then you know for sure that you can close that door for good.

[olivetree]

I was thinking about the recent thread on first dates and me seeing a recent movie.

 

Just wondering, would you be bold enough to send out a sorta "blind" invite to someone you're trying to reconnect with - and wait to see if they show?

 

I mean, like the movie, imagine sitting there and they don't show

 

Then again, imagine if like if they do show...

 

Could you be more specific about your plan and what kind of history you have with this person? Do you know if he is single?

 

I'm assuming you mean you'll say something like, "I will be at X between Y and Z time. I'd love if you came by."

[Sweetfish]

I was thinking about the recent thread on first dates and me seeing a recent movie.

 

Just wondering, would you be bold enough to send out a sorta "blind" invite to someone you're trying to reconnect with - and wait to see if they show?

 

I mean, like the movie, imagine sitting there and they don't show

 

Then again, imagine if like if they do show...

 

Just dont tell someone this seat is taken and an hour into the movie their like, " hmmmm, seat taken huh"

[PLT]

I have actually thought about doing this, but seeing as she won't even respond to a text or email, I'll save my pride and go see the film on my own or with a friend

[Sweetfish]

I have actually thought about doing this, but seeing as she won't even respond to a text or email, I'll save my pride and go see the film on my own or with a friend

 

Im watching you PLT..

[PLT]

 

See my latest in "How are you coping today." Acceptance is coming.

[dumbass2]

I was thinking about the recent thread on first dates and me seeing a recent movie.

 

Just wondering, would you be bold enough to send out a sorta "blind" invite to someone you're trying to reconnect with - and wait to see if they show?

 

I mean, like the movie, imagine sitting there and they don't show

 

Then again, imagine if like if they do show...

 

I would do that.......if the movie Dumb and Dumber was still playing somewhere. Dumb of me to throw it our there and dumber on her part if she showed up.

 

Don't think of doing this with an ex you still have romantic interest in unless you don't mind the hurt when they don't show. You'll still end up getting hurt even if they do.

[olivetree]

Just dont tell someone this seat is taken and an hour into the movie their like, " hmmmm, seat taken huh"

 

I took what she said as being inspired by a movie she saw recently to tell a man where she will be and if he is interested to come by.

 

I did not take it as her telling a man she will be at a movie to come join her.

[DrReplyInRhymes]

I think that would be incredibly romantic and sweet,

With the added benefit of watching a movie should it end in defeat!

Edited January 3, 2017 by DrReplyInRhymes