EX BOYFRIEND randomly blocked me on Facebook...What is going on?

[MissAriana]

So my ex bf who I've dated from the start f 2016 till July has blocked me on Facebook. Basically i am 22 and he is 26. We nearly got engaged however he didn't want to go through with it because his dad was against it and he either had to pick me or his dad/family, he picked them of course. He broke it off twice with me after telling me he just couldnt do it. I was heartbroken. This guy also lives in a different country but we were were going to marry and he was going to move here as you can tell that didnt work out.

 

After he dumped me one night and basically got angry at me for asking for my money back he told me it was officially over, he made me feel bad for asking for my money which i never gave to him???? What the hell. Now, this guy was so hot and cold. I gave him a few expensive t shirts as well as a gift he returned those to my mum but my mum said "Those are yours to keep" so he kept them i guess. Next thing i know he gave one of the shirts i got for him to his friend and this shirt is really specific no one has it. His friend posted a photo on FB with that jumper! (I dont have this friend on FB btw)

 

Now, he broke up with me in July remember and i asked him just to work things out and give it another shot, I've had not response from him. So i deleted him from Facebook accidentally and i never added him again. We havent even spoken since our break up. I did occasionally visit his FB page but it was private.

 

I visites his page again 2 days ago and it was fine i could see his name and everything. And then yesterday i go to search his name and i cant find anything and cant see any of his comments on his friends photo. So i decided to log in to my mums FB and search his name and there he is i could see his profile so i know for a fact he didnt deactivate it. I log back in to my profile to double check and of course cant view him at all. I tried searching on Instagram (his IG is private so you cant view anything) and of course he blocked me there too (maybe)

 

So why now after he dumped me and had an amazing time without me? We have not spoken in 5 months since the break up and I've made no attempt to contact him nor do i want to. I just find these things fascinating. Why would he block me now when we arent friends on FB and both of our pages are private (You can only see Profile pic) and we havent attempted to make contact with one another?

 

Btw i dont want this guy back nor does this upset me i am just fascinated

Edited January 5, 2017 by MissAriana

[longjohn]

I hate to be blunt but this has immaturity written all over it. There's a few things to accept.. He isn't interested anymore which is hard to accept sometimes but for reasons known to him he has. You must accept this, stop facebook stalking him and move along he has. Your a young lady, believe me a few years from now you won't be too bothered about this guy.

 

Unfortunately in relationships we don't get closure as you are learning. We don't get the truth or all the answers we want. We don't even get a goodbye sometimes. Sometimes we have the door firmly slammed in our face and we're left to think wtf. That's an unfortunate part of life.

[Erik30]

Why do you care? He is your ex. He actually did you a favour, now you can really start doing no contact instead of checking up on him.

 

And why block you now? Maybe he's dating some new girl

[ElizabethIII]

He may have known you were looking. Did you ever accidentally like a public post of his while you were looking at him? You may not have known you did it.

 

In the nicest possible way, you broke up 6 months ago. You still regularly check his facebook. I have been there. That way madness lies. Put this effort into finding someone new.

[KatZee]

Maybe HE needs to move on from YOU. Good chance he doesn't want to see anything about you. Your pics, posts, your life. He got fed up and finally pulled the trigger to block you.

[ElizabethIII]

Maybe HE needs to move on from YOU. Good chance he doesn't want to see anything about you. Your pics, posts, your life. He got fed up and finally pulled the trigger to block you.

 

That maybe so if they were friends on facebook but they arent. She unfriended him months ago.

[Mrlonelyone]

We can never know the reason.

 

To me this sounds like he was doing some new years cleaning. Many people do that.

[Simple Logic]

So my ex bf who I've dated from the start f 2016 till July has blocked me on Facebook. Basically i am 22 and he is 26. We nearly got engaged however he didn't want to go through with it because his dad was against it and he either had to pick me or his dad/family, he picked them of course. He broke it off twice with me after telling me he just couldnt do it. I was heartbroken. This guy also lives in a different country but we were were going to marry and he was going to move here as you can tell that didnt work out.

 

After he dumped me one night and basically got angry at me for asking for my money back he told me it was officially over, he made me feel bad for asking for my money which i never gave to him???? What the hell. Now, this guy was so hot and cold. I gave him a few expensive t shirts as well as a gift he returned those to my mum but my mum said "Those are yours to keep" so he kept them i guess. Next thing i know he gave one of the shirts i got for him to his friend and this shirt is really specific no one has it. His friend posted a photo on FB with that jumper! (I dont have this friend on FB btw)

 

Now, he broke up with me in July remember and i asked him just to work things out and give it another shot, I've had not response from him. So i deleted him from Facebook accidentally and i never added him again. We havent even spoken since our break up. I did occasionally visit his FB page but it was private.

 

I visites his page again 2 days ago and it was fine i could see his name and everything. And then yesterday i go to search his name and i cant find anything and cant see any of his comments on his friends photo. So i decided to log in to my mums FB and search his name and there he is i could see his profile so i know for a fact he didnt deactivate it. I log back in to my profile to double check and of course cant view him at all. I tried searching on Instagram (his IG is private so you cant view anything) and of course he blocked me there too (maybe)

 

So why now after he dumped me and had an amazing time without me? We have not spoken in 5 months since the break up and I've made no attempt to contact him nor do i want to. I just find these things fascinating. Why would he block me now when we arent friends on FB and both of our pages are private (You can only see Profile pic) and we havent attempted to make contact with one another?

 

Btw i dont want this guy back nor does this upset me i am just fascinated

 

When you date women internationally, lead them to believe you are going to marry them in less than 7 months contact, accept money and gifts from women, and then dump them, you don't want any evidence for the next woman to stumble upon.

[MissAriana]

I hate to be blunt but this has immaturity written all over it. There's a few things to accept.. He isn't interested anymore which is hard to accept sometimes but for reasons known to him he has. You must accept this, stop facebook stalking him and move along he has. Your a young lady, believe me a few years from now you won't be too bothered about this guy.

 

Unfortunately in relationships we don't get closure as you are learning. We don't get the truth or all the answers we want. We don't even get a goodbye sometimes. Sometimes we have the door firmly slammed in our face and we're left to think wtf. That's an unfortunate part of life.

 

You havent even attempted to answer my question. I dont care about this guy AT ALL. If i did i would have made contact. I unfriended him accidentally. His presence on FB does not bother me and since we arent friends on Facebook and both of our profiles are private (meaning you can only see a profile pic) there is absolutely NO REASON for him to block me after 5 months since our break up. I havent tried contracting him he hasnt tried contacting me. He wasnt bothered by my FB presence when he broke up with me so why should he be bothered now.

[marky00]

I believe the Facebook Messenger app on phones etc can notify you of people who have viewed your profile.

 

 

Clearly he had that or some other app running that told him you had looked at his page.

 

 

But, the fact he blocked you doesn't necessarily means he don't care. He may have done it to protect you if he felt there was some stuff on his page might hurt you.

[MissAriana]

He may have known you were looking. Did you ever accidentally like a public post of his while you were looking at him? You may not have known you did it.

 

In the nicest possible way, you broke up 6 months ago. You still regularly check his facebook. I have been there. That way madness lies. Put this effort into finding someone new.

 

His profile is private you cant view anything on it so that isnt possible. I only ever put his name into the search bar and clicked on it and got out.

 

Trust me if i cared he would have been blocked ages ago because thats how i deal with things. If i dont care which in this case i dont i usually dont mind seeing the person around FB or going on to their profile

[marky00]

p.s. if you don't care for him at all, why this thread?

[MissAriana]

I believe the Facebook Messenger app on phones etc can notify you of people who have viewed your profile.

 

 

Clearly he had that or some other app running that told him you had looked at his page.

 

 

But, the fact he blocked you doesn't necessarily means he don't care. He may have done it to protect you if he felt there was some stuff on his page might hurt you.

 

No it doesn't i have Messenger and it never tells me anything

[MissAriana]

p.s. if you don't care for him at all, why this thread?

 

 

I am allowed to be curious that doesnt mean I care. I guess i just want to feel better in a way. Knowing that he blocked me does not affect me. When i care about someone i will usually block them from FB becausenit hurts to see their page. This guy is just weird and so are his actions you dont block someone who you havent spoken to in ages and clearly didnt give a damn when he broke it off. Btw we were not friends on FB

[marky00]

No it doesn't i have Messenger and it never tells me anything

 

Well, a friend of mine told me he gets facebook notifications of visitors so its possible. There are apps that do it.

[marky00]

. I guess i just want to feel better in a way.

 

Sorry, but that means u care, at least a little. It's an ego thing, doesn't mean u want him back but its dented ur ego a little.

[MissAriana]

Sorry, but that means u care, at least a little. It's an ego thing, doesn't mean u want him back but its dented ur ego a little.

 

That is true, but it actually made me feel a bit better knowing he blocked me. Whatever the reason is. But i honestly dont think that someone would just randomly block you out of the blue after 5 months of not caring. He didn't care to block me then so why now. And i think you are all focusing on how i am feeling rather than being helpful and answering my question which is WHY is he doing this. I'd appreciate some helpful answers instead of people telling me how I feel when i know exactly how i feel.

[Blanco]

He doesn't want to know you anymore. Nothing more to it than that.

 

Mystery solved.

[marky00]

That is true, but it actually made me feel a bit better knowing he blocked me. Whatever the reason is. But i honestly dont think that someone would just randomly block you out of the blue after 5 months of not caring. He didn't care to block me then so why now. And i think you are all focusing on how i am feeling rather than being helpful and answering my question which is WHY is he doing this. I'd appreciate some helpful answers instead of people telling me how I feel when i know exactly how i feel.

 

I gave you a reason, said that he most likely detected you snooped on his page. There are apps that can do that. But you have been shooting down all our theories, probably because you only want to hear or believe a certain answer.

 

 

Probably because he has a new gf and wants to protect her from his past or protect you from his future.

Edited January 5, 2017 by marky00

[MissAriana]

I gave you a reason, said that he most likely detected you snooped on his page. There are apps that can do that. But you have been shooting down all our theories, probably because you only want to hear or believe a certain answer.

 

 

Probably because he has a new gf and wants to protect her from his past or protect you from his future.

 

And so what even if he has a way of detecting that i was on his page I can assure you he was snooping on mine plenty. You dont just block someone because of that..i never contacted him nor was i harassing him on FB. I deleted him accidentally from FB and thats about it. That should have been enough. Once you dont care you dont bother blocking anyone. I also just found out he has deleted my cousins from FB too..hmm

[marky00]

. Once you dont care you dont bother blocking anyone.

 

 

 

So u admit this is an ego thing. You just want confirmation that he still cares about you.

 

 

 

 

Also, you can't expect him to think the way you do. We are all different. That's what is bothering you, the fact that his behaviour is a little confusing or w/e. That is life, we can't expect others to behave how we want them to, it does not work that way.

[basil67]

You "accidentally" unfriended him. He blocked you. All sounds fair to me.

 

As you don't care about him, I suggest you get over it.

[MissAriana]

You "accidentally" unfriended him. He blocked you. All sounds fair to me.

 

As you don't care about him, I suggest you get over it.

 

You obviously havent read what I wrote i unfriended him when we broke up ages ago. He never reacted to it and then he decided to block me. He also blocked me on Instagram lastnight and we dont follow eachother btw and both of our profiles are private, i search him up just then and he unblocked me. OBVIOUSLY he is playing mind games. Oh and i suggest you get off my thread with your rude attitude. If you are going to be nasty dont bother commenting.

[MissAriana]

So u admit this is an ego thing. You just want confirmation that he still cares about you.

 

 

 

 

Also, you can't expect him to think the way you do. We are all different. That's what is bothering you, the fact that his behaviour is a little confusing or w/e. That is life, we can't expect others to behave how we want them to, it does not work that way.

 

So then why would he bother blocking me on FB and instagram. His instgram is private and so is mine and we dont follow eachother. He blocked me on Instagram yesterday and just now i search him up and he has UNBLOCKED me. How do you explain that then. Thats messed up.

[basil67]

You obviously havent read what I wrote i unfriended him when we broke up ages ago. He never reacted to it and then he decided to block me. He also blocked me on Instagram lastnight and we dont follow eachother btw and both of our profiles are private, i search him up just then and he unblocked me. OBVIOUSLY he is playing mind games. Oh and i suggest you get off my thread with your rude attitude. If you are going to be nasty dont bother commenting.

 

OBVIOUSLY he's playing mind games? One could say the same thing about you "accidentally" unfriending him.

 

Have you considered that he discovered that you unfriended him and has flipped you the bird in response? It's the next most obvious answer.

 

Also, if you ask us to decipher someone's actions, we do our best. If you don't want opinions, then don't ask for them.