Rosalind Posted July 23, 2005 Share Posted July 23, 2005 Originally posted by alphamale Does not that make sense?? NO I thought you were implying that ALL women do the same thing...which is not something I notice, ya know? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Nomad Posted July 23, 2005 Author Share Posted July 23, 2005 Originally posted by blind_otter You'd be surprised, sugar. I'm 5' tall, and I've dated guys who were 6'7 (ack!) and guys who were 5'6. My current BF is 5'7. I refuse to date tall men now, the physics of sex don't work out well (I don't like being humped by a huge bear of a guy, with my face all itchy from his chest hair... )....I honestly find shorter guys more attractive. Plus, if a shorter guy si very confident in himself it just seems to stand out more to me. My exH was very insecure when I first met him, then we started dating and I was a huge ego boost for him. He used to parade me around to various parties and social functions as his little tiny half asian prize. Anyways. I love short guys. I'm just sayin'.... Shortness is only part of it, actually. It is harder to get girls when you're short, but I've seen a few short guys who really got a lot of girls cuz even though they didn't have height, they stilll had looks. I don't even have that. I'm short AND ugly, & that makes things A LOT tougher. Link to post Share on other sites
loony Posted July 23, 2005 Share Posted July 23, 2005 Originally posted by Nomad Shortness is only part of it, actually. It is harder to get girls when you're short, but I've seen a few short guys who really got a lot of girls cuz even though they didn't have height, they stilll had looks. I don't even have that. I'm short AND ugly, & that makes things A LOT tougher. As a man you can still make up a lot with your charms, intelligence and self-confidence. If you were a woman you'd have to go for plastic surgery in addition to these things. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted July 23, 2005 Share Posted July 23, 2005 Originally posted by Nomad Shortness is only part of it, actually. It is harder to get girls when you're short, but I've seen a few short guys who really got a lot of girls my younger brother is about 5'6". but he is very good looking and a physician. needless to say....he gets lots of women! Link to post Share on other sites
Marshbear Posted July 23, 2005 Share Posted July 23, 2005 Originally posted by Nomad Shortness is only part of it, actually. It is harder to get girls when you're short, but I've seen a few short guys who really got a lot of girls cuz even though they didn't have height, they stilll had looks. I don't even have that. I'm short AND ugly, & that makes things A LOT tougher. With that attitude you have given up already. I know in our society the emphasis is on your outward appearance but I'm sure your not a bad as you think you are. If women don't just swoon over your looks then you have to do other things to get noticed. You have to get past the opening and show them that there is something to you. Most people will give you a chance if you are interesting with a good sense of humor. How old are you Nomad? Link to post Share on other sites
Marshbear Posted July 23, 2005 Share Posted July 23, 2005 It's a good thing you are finally talking about the reason for your post. Just talking about your problems will make you feel better. We are all here to listen and help... Link to post Share on other sites
JS17 Posted July 23, 2005 Share Posted July 23, 2005 one of my best friends is beautiful and dates the ugliest men. i never got it but hey if that's what she finds attractive then good for her. some of my "cool" friends make fun of me for dating pretty boys because they're not manly or rock and roll guys. one of those cool friends dates guys so ugly that she once hit on a homeless guy. another one of my friends isn't that attractive and dates these giant muscle bound guys that look like they should be on some calendar half naked somewhere. i have a guy friend who is very very attractive that will only date chubby blonde girls. point being....different strokes for different folks Link to post Share on other sites
A Fly onThe Wall Posted July 23, 2005 Share Posted July 23, 2005 Originally posted by JS17 one of those cool friends dates guys so ugly that she once hit on a homeless guy. Now that is real charity .. Giving him a good meal.. Link to post Share on other sites
Angelina1433 Posted July 23, 2005 Share Posted July 23, 2005 Now that is real charity .. Giving him a good meal.. Hahaha! I chuckled. Thanks for that Fly! Link to post Share on other sites
Angelina1433 Posted July 23, 2005 Share Posted July 23, 2005 Seriously though, I like all sorts of men, and height doesn't matter to me. What matters most is confidence, a sense of humor, and most of all brains. Good looks don't hurt, but that's a plus for me. A lot of times my friends have said, "WTF, you're going out with him?" and I say, "Yup". You don't have to be a 6'2" GQ model to find a great girl. Buck up, and work on emphasizing your best qualities. You'll find her. Link to post Share on other sites
cubbbb Posted July 23, 2005 Share Posted July 23, 2005 Now that is real charity .. Giving him a good meal..>>>>>>>>> Nothing Like a free meal at the (Y) Link to post Share on other sites
Author Nomad Posted July 24, 2005 Author Share Posted July 24, 2005 In answer to whoever asked my age, I am in mid-twenties. Link to post Share on other sites
JS17 Posted July 24, 2005 Share Posted July 24, 2005 yeah, the girl that hit on the homeless guy is so attractive that every guy i know that has met her has wanted her. go figure! Link to post Share on other sites
laRubiaBonita Posted July 25, 2005 Share Posted July 25, 2005 HOPEFULLY............................ In my G-spots! Link to post Share on other sites
Marshbear Posted July 25, 2005 Share Posted July 25, 2005 In my G-spots! G-Spots...... How many do you have??? Link to post Share on other sites
laRubiaBonita Posted July 25, 2005 Share Posted July 25, 2005 Originally posted by Marshbear G-Spots...... How many do you have??? 4, That i know of currently~! Link to post Share on other sites
A Fly onThe Wall Posted July 25, 2005 Share Posted July 25, 2005 Originally posted by laRubiaBonita 4, That i know of currently~! Can i count 'em ?? I don't think you have found them all Link to post Share on other sites
laRubiaBonita Posted July 25, 2005 Share Posted July 25, 2005 Originally posted by A Fly onThe Wall Can i count 'em ?? I don't think you have found them all See...... LS is where the Majority of Hit-ons take place! look this is Post #69~ Link to post Share on other sites
MWC_LifeBeginsAt40 Posted July 25, 2005 Share Posted July 25, 2005 I am 39 (almost 40) and think I look 5 yrs younger (some tell me ten yrs younger). Yesterday I put on my best smile, a halter top, jean skirt (conservative length) and went to Home Depot. I didn't get hit on. Then I went to the mall. I didn't get hit on. Then I went to Chapters and browed thru a few different book sections. I didn't get hit on. Then I went and sat on an outdoor patio having a couple margueritas and lunch and read my new book "He's Just Not That Into You". I didn't get hit on. Then I went to Walmart. I didn't get hit on. Link to post Share on other sites
laRubiaBonita Posted July 25, 2005 Share Posted July 25, 2005 Originally posted by MWC_LifeBeginsAt40 I am 39 (almost 40) and think I look 5 yrs younger (some tell me ten yrs younger). Yesterday I put on my best smile, a halter top, jean skirt (conservative length) and went to Home Depot. I didn't get hit on. Then I went to the mall. I didn't get hit on. Then I went to Chapters and browed thru a few different book sections. I didn't get hit on. Then I went and sat on an outdoor patio having a couple margueritas and lunch and read my new book "He's Just Not That Into You". I didn't get hit on. Then I went to Walmart. I didn't get hit on. so Maybe you do NOT look as Good as you think? Link to post Share on other sites
JS17 Posted July 25, 2005 Share Posted July 25, 2005 or maybe they're just intimidated by your overwhelming beauty Link to post Share on other sites
laRubiaBonita Posted July 25, 2005 Share Posted July 25, 2005 Originally posted by JS17 or maybe they're just intimidated by your overwhelming beauty aren't you nice! sorry, MWC_LifeBeginsAt40, i was trying to be really mean. Link to post Share on other sites
scratch Posted July 25, 2005 Share Posted July 25, 2005 Originally posted by laRubiaBonita so Maybe you do NOT look as Good as you think? Or maybe her skirt was too long. Seriously, just because women get hit on in all types of places does not mean that they do not ever go anywhere without being hit upon. It means that there is always a chance they will. Link to post Share on other sites
MWC_LifeBeginsAt40 Posted July 25, 2005 Share Posted July 25, 2005 Well I'm not going let the results of my "experiment", nor your comments LaRubia, destroy my self image. I am told I'm a very attractive woman and have a very nice smile. But I am shy, and could use a tuneup on my interpersonal skills. It took alot for me to get out of the house in the first place because normally I would be very self conscious going braless! lol I did get alot of "looks" just nobody came up to me. I guess maybe if I'd returned some of those looks.... Maybe my muscular arms are too intimidating to the guys Link to post Share on other sites
laRubiaBonita Posted July 25, 2005 Share Posted July 25, 2005 Originally posted by MWC_LifeBeginsAt40 But I am shy, and could use a tuneup on my interpersonal skills. It took alot for me to get out of the house in the first place because normally I would be very self conscious going braless! lol I did get alot of "looks" just nobody came up to me. I guess maybe if I'd returned some of those looks.... Maybe my muscular arms are too intimidating to the guys soo you wanted to get hit on at WAL-MART???????? Link to post Share on other sites
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