Confused48 Posted January 13, 2017 Share Posted January 13, 2017 OP. I think sometimes advice can be great and sometimes not so much. I agree, especially free advice on a forum. The thing that will help you the most is getting professional help IC from someone who has no bias and can help you get to the root of your issues, and deal with these feelings and thoughts in a safe healthy manner. Funny thing about paying for advice, when you do that, you tend to heed that advice more than free advice. Maybe talk to a pro about this Mona. Link to post Share on other sites
HeCantBreakMe Posted January 13, 2017 Share Posted January 13, 2017 Actually- Moana I am sort of curious what it is you miss about him? Is it HIM as a person or the affair or is just the way he made you feel? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
DKT3 Posted January 14, 2017 Share Posted January 14, 2017 Mona - if you have been on this forum for two years, it might be time to take a break. I can see you are getting lots of good advice here and are sometimes taking heed of that advice but this place can also make you stuck. I'm not saying everyone here that long is stuck. Obviously a lot of the long time posters here are beyond their affairs and here to help others. You are here seeking help and after two years it may just be like continually reopening the wound. Good point, however maybe the issue is its never been dealt with. It's fairly obvious there is a mixture of rugsweeping and hiding. Doesn't matter if it's two years or 20 years. If she stays with her husband and wants a successful relationship with him, she will have to pull back that rug and clean that sh#t up. Doing so will mean she is finally making the choice to end the affair and improve her marriage. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
ladydesigner Posted January 17, 2017 Share Posted January 17, 2017 Actually- Moana I am sort of curious what it is you miss about him? Is it HIM as a person or the affair or is just the way he made you feel? Very good question! Moana think about what it is that you REALLY miss about him. Link to post Share on other sites
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