I'm in love with someone who used to pay me for sex

[Lovesick55]

It all started while I was an escort. He called me for the first time and invited me into his home. Very nice penthouse, very polite and very much a gentleman. We would have a drink or two and than get to it. I was there for about an hour. I seen him up to 10 times before he asked me out on an actual date. (Out to dinner) I thought it was very odd.

 

He wasn't my type but he was very funny and something just made me always want to impress him. I was going through a tough time living in a hotel downtown, it was just an exhausting life style and I had no shame telling him about it. long story short I started staying in his home.. he told me just for a couple days see how i like it.

 

I ended up living with him for two years and now we are expecting a baby boy and I'm in love with him more than I ever thought was possible. I'm confused because I know I was not the first women he has payed for for sex. and I don't know if that's just the kind of women he fell in love with. the mystery and desire of who I was. men get hookers for a reason. and I've never been on this side.. I've always been the other women.

 

I've met men leave work on there lunch break and meet me at my hotel.. spend there last days away from there fiancé with me for the night.. I've seen it all.. i just don't know, how many other girls has he asked to stay in his home? How many others has he actually caught feelings for? Will he always have this desire?

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[Space Ritual]

I've seen it all.. i just don't know, how many other girls has he asked to stay in his home? How many others has he actually caught feelings for? Will he always have this desire?

 

Why don't you just ask him? No harm in that, is there?.

 

Or is there?

[kgcolonel]

Your situation is fascinating in that normally, I'd think that it would be him asking how many clients you had been with and if and how many men may have thought you had fallen for them to "earn some extra considerations". I say this not to judge but find it interesting that it is very likely your number far out numbers his and yet you seem concerned about his past experiences.....Living at his place for two years, did you continue to escort while living there or did you cease and stay loyal to him while living with him? If you continued to escort while living with him, did he seem concerned about your whereabouts and safety or were you two able to keep things on a casual basis?

 

Very interesting perspective you have shared, thank you.....

[Simple Logic]

Hopefully you wont be shocked when he starts paying someone else.

[road]

Has he been faithful to you and you to him since you moved in 2 years ago.

If the answer is yes then there is nothing to discuss. He does not care about the past and you should not as well.

 

 

More important do you want to marry him and what are his marriage plans?

[aileD]

Yeah you need to just ask him. You're bringing a baby into this, it's not unusual to want to be clear on where the relationship stands .

 

Was he single the times he hired you? It's not impossible to think if he has money and doesn't want a relationship that he would pay for an escort, and maybe he fell in love....it can happen.

 

But you need to talk to him

[fenix]

I think I am listening to Roxette singing :

 

" Listen to your heart when he's calling for you.

Listen to your heart there's nothing else you can do."

 

Pretty woman 2?