hitswitch Posted July 19, 2005 Share Posted July 19, 2005 I have a really good female friend who i hav pretty strong feelings for,and have felt thid way 4 a long time.for all the time that i have loved her i hardly get with other people at clubs n such,but she does quite a lot-nothing ever comes fromit. i just want to know what you girls think-if u wer in love with a guy would you go with other guys at all? shes not the sort to play games so i doubt she is tryin to make me jealous. what d'you think ? Link to post Share on other sites
Marshbear Posted July 19, 2005 Share Posted July 19, 2005 She's a friend. She sees you as a platonic friend so you are wasting your time trying to hope for more. You need to start going up to girls and keep her as a friend.She is not the one..... Link to post Share on other sites
somegirloutthere Posted July 20, 2005 Share Posted July 20, 2005 Your best bet is to risk it and ask. I am a friendly girl in general (I am not touchy-touchy), but I smile and joke with people easily and I don't have any problems meeting new people). Just because I'm friendly doesn't mean I am not shy when it comes to guys and relationships. I have very strong feelings for one of my guy friends. I tried to be extra friendly with him, but I think he has problems figuring out whether I like him as more than friends (he could think I'm just being friendly). I am not sure what else to do. If he asks me out, I'd say yes in a heartbeat. If he doesn't ask me out, I am assuming that he's not interested. I already gave him all the signs of interests (and I don't like to play games either, and he's the *only* guy I am giving all sorts of signals right now). I would, however, go out with other guys if they ask me out, and it won't be to make him jealous. What else could I do? Wait around forever? If he is interested, he should ask me out. That's the "other" perspective. Good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
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