24yo virgin, no relationship experience. Too late now?

[amkxoxo]

Hi Loveless, I was reading your post on here and was totally dumbfounded by it, because it sounds a lot like me. I’m a 24 year old female who often feels like you too. I’ve fooled around with men, but haven’t had a full sexual experience. And I too, feel like I don’t want to do it with someone I don’t care about. Seems like such a waste. Now as I am almost 25, I'm feeling more and more self conscious. I am open to sleeping with someone if we are in a relationship and have dated a bit. But I'm nervous they won't be impressed by my lack of experience.

 

Some guys seem to find it cute at first, some guys like it because they can show me and teach me, but I know some guys want a girl whose good in bed right off the bat, and I get so nervous thinking they will leave me.

 

I’ve had such bad luck with finding good men that actually stick around in my life and put me as a priority. I’m not some upscale girl who wants to be treated like a princess, but I value time and effort, which sadly is hard to find from a man these days. Guys tell me I'm pretty and cute. Guys have told me I'm total wife material, because I'm nice and sweet. One guy told me he could see himself being with me down the road.

 

I literally totally get what you are saying about girls running off with other guys. I feel like I'm passed over by guys that I want, because they are picking girls with lower standards, who will sleep with them on the first date. I try so hard to dress nice, and look cute. I'm college educated. I have a great job and apartment all on my own. I have a huge heart. I love to cook for a man and cuddle up and watch movies. I like to go out and have drinks and do fun things together. I have a dirty mind too and am down to try new sexual things, but never get the chance with the right person.

 

I have some standards. And I keep seeing all these guys trying to get their lives together and they aren't ready for a long term relationship.

 

I would love to talk to you more about our situations, because you really struck a nerve with me. I tried to send you a private message, but it said you could not receive those. If you want to talk, I would love that.