just wondering...what should i do to be more liked...?

[whats my problem...]

i dunno im pretty sociable after a few hours of knowing someone

 

im only 14 but i dunno depression has been pwning me and i have basically just frozen in my RL

 

what should i do to be more liked...? change my look be harsh i just need some advice why all girls arent really "into" me....

 

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[ReluctantRomeo]

Don't worry. Girls aren't really into 14 year olds. Even 14 year old girls aren't - ever notice how your classmates will be making eyes at older guys all the time?

 

Here are some tips to get you practising. So that you're hot when your time comes.

 

- practise making friends with girls. Just friends. Even when you don't want them as a girlfriend. This gets you used to relating to girls and builds confidence.

- be a good listener. Ask them questions about themselves. In a polite and kind way of course.

- be a little bit of a tease, but in a nice way.

- don't make your life about girls. Be a man with manly hobbies and guy friends.

- cultivate confidence. This is the single most attractive trait to women.

[rschief]

so stop trying so hard. at your age boys and girls mature differently. stop foccussing on who does not like me and more on what you like. sports, toutoring friends in subjects you understand, skateboarding, you need to spend time at being better at what you like other than another person as in these post you write of. Your competing the wrong way, you have to fourm some accepyable accomplishments, and they do noy have to be grandueer either. cute only goes so far and there are a whole lot of cutes to compete in that false misconsception. good hygene is important, i know because one day i went to school and found a wash cloth and soap in my locker. so brush your teeth, wash your clothes, take baths daily. you have to find interests outside your self, so you can share different experiances you have learned and like.