JadeStar Posted July 20, 2005 Share Posted July 20, 2005 First of all I'm sure paranoia has set in due to past things going on. However, I noticed a number on our cell bill that has been on there every so often, not alot but once in awhile. Ok thats good. This is a number that is called to my husband not a call that he makes to them. I know that this number is stored in his cell phonebook with the persons name out beside it because I have seen it. I know most of the numbers in my husbands cell, I see them every so often too on the cell bill. Its mostly people he works with. But because I wasn't familar with this number, and my husband has never said anything about it, I called it. Got their voiceamail, it was a man. I did not leave a message but he must have caller id because he called back and I played it off as I dialed the wrong number. I have seen this number on the cell bill maybe over the past 6 or 7 months. The calls are very short, anywhere from 1- 4 minutes. I'm not one to come out and ask my husband alot of questions because most of the time I don't get a straight answer. So I usually will take matters into my own hands to get to the bottom of what may or may not be happening depending on the situation. I looked this persons name up in the white pages online. Its the only man by that name in NC. However, it gave me his address and home number, the number that has called my H's phone and is stored in H's cell phone book must be his cell number. The thing is where this man lives is about 3 hours away from us. On the reverse cell phone look up his cell is based out of a whole another area about 2 hours even further away from us and even further than where it says he lives. I decded I was going to casually ask my H about the number to see what he would say. He comes in last night, we eat, hes looking at the cell bill. Before I can ask him he says to me, "Whose number is this on here?" I reply with, "I was about to ask you the same thing, it was called to your cell." He then says, "Yes I see that, but I don't know this number." (Keep in mind he has this persons number stored in his cell.) So I asked him "why don't you get your phone, look in the cell phonebook and see if theres any numbers on there that are also on the cell bill. Maybe it will ring a bell as to who it is." He says, "I can't right now my phone is charging." Which is was. So this morning I asked him again in a polite way to check. He did, and says to me, I don't have that number in my cell, must be a wrong number." Thats a lie!! The number is in his cell with the guys name out beside it! Its highly possible this is someone he works with, and maybe this 3 hour away address is old or something, hell I dunno. However, my question is, if its a man, a man that calls every so often to my H's cell, a number he DOES have in his cell, why would he lie and say he doesn't know who it is? He knows all the other people and numbers that are in his cell but not this one? And says he doesn't have it in there!! WTF! I don't get it, someone please enlighten me as to why he would lie about this? Sorry so long. Jade Link to post Share on other sites
tiki Posted July 20, 2005 Share Posted July 20, 2005 Next time you can, check to see if the # is missing. That'll tell you lots. Other than that....people can assign names for different #'s (obviously), for instance... Let's say I had a boyfriend named John. John's # is 555-1234. If I program my sister Suzie's name into that phone number, everytimg John calls, it states that tthe call was from "Suzie". So by automatic default, you'd probably assume that I was really talking to "Suzie". The only way to know is to actually look at the number assigned to the name. I'm curious to see if the number magically disappears. I'm betting it will. Aren't you the one that's had other suspicions? Link to post Share on other sites
Author JadeStar Posted July 20, 2005 Author Share Posted July 20, 2005 Hey tiki, yes I have had suspcions about him before because of past lies. You know I was thinking the very same thing you said, now that he says its not in there, I bet this afternoon it will be gone! It was one of the first things I thought of. However, even if its gone from the cell phonebook, if the man keeps calling it will show on the bill. My thing is, if its all innocent or possibly someone he works with etc, then why lie, thats my whole point, I just don't get it. What is even more weird to me is, I never see where my H calls this person, this guy always calls my H. However My H has it stored in his cell. Hell maybe its his PI checking in with him, to give him an update on me, LMAO, that would be a waste of time and money, he would come up nothing. Jade Link to post Share on other sites
tiki Posted July 20, 2005 Share Posted July 20, 2005 Never thought of that?!?!? OMG that's hilarious!!! Anyway....so what time is this guy calling? During work hours? The weird thing is that a man answered. I'd be so suspicious if a woman answered...but a man?! Talk about throwing things off! I bet the number will be gone. I think you can also search the number in previous phone bills. In Internet Explorer, go to Edit > Find and type in the #. In Adobe, use the search function. Too weird man! Link to post Share on other sites
Author JadeStar Posted July 20, 2005 Author Share Posted July 20, 2005 LOL tiki yep it is weird! Another thing I failed to mention, when I called it and got this voicemail, hes outgoing message says, "This is Mr.Jordan, please leave a message and I'll call you back." However Mr.Jordan isn't even what the name is that is stored in H's cell, its totally different! Maybe its someone that "Mr.Jordan" lets borrow his phone and thats the name thats stored in H's cell. Anyway the man lied. Jade Link to post Share on other sites
tiki Posted July 20, 2005 Share Posted July 20, 2005 I wonder if you can google the name and get any info on him. He could be a PI like you said! Link to post Share on other sites
Author JadeStar Posted July 20, 2005 Author Share Posted July 20, 2005 I'll try that tiki. The problem with getting more info sometimes on someone is you gotta pay for it, that sucks! A friend of mine said heres some possiblities. 1. Its someone my H works with, and the 3 hour away address is old and he recently moved here, however its the only guy by that name that lives in NC. 2. Its his PI(Oh hell naw I anit playin that game!) 3. My H has a man stalker 4. Could be the guy keeps calling and he has the wrong number, however if thats the cae H wouldn't have it stored in his cell. 5. H works for the post office, could be someone wanting to know where his check is. However, I asked H that before, he says he doesn't give out his cell numbers to people on his route. But he did use too and they would bug the crap out him about their check! Jade Link to post Share on other sites
tiki Posted July 20, 2005 Share Posted July 20, 2005 But the call was longer than a few seconds. Link to post Share on other sites
Author JadeStar Posted July 20, 2005 Author Share Posted July 20, 2005 LOL, I did a google search on the mans name. Says he is a bodybuilder. My husband is a member of a body building forum and works out. This mans name was also listed in that body building site My H goes too. However, says this man lives in Atlanta Georgia. I did a search in the white pages for this man in Atlanta theres no one by that name there. The man has written bodybuilding books, has videos, etc. So why is he(if this is the same man) calling my H? HMMM??? His cell is not based out of Atlanta nor does this man I first did a search on in NC live in Atlanta. And why would he lie too? Jade Link to post Share on other sites
tiki Posted July 20, 2005 Share Posted July 20, 2005 OMG. Now you're like a PI. Idunno....but doesn't sound so fishy now. Your H isn't gay is he? Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted July 20, 2005 Share Posted July 20, 2005 I was thinking the same thing, about your H being gay or even possibly having a 3-some with this guy and his wife or girlfriend? you got me going now... I hope you find out what is going on! He's lying to you, but WHY????? Link to post Share on other sites
Author JadeStar Posted July 20, 2005 Author Share Posted July 20, 2005 WWIP, yes thats the main thing why the lying? tiki, girl I think it sounds even more fishy to me now. He better not be gay! I did notice that since my husband takes many supplements for bodybuilding, he has 3 new ones. They are for keeping the d*ck hard! Damn it stays hard already, he can't even touch me without it going boing!! He did call me in the bathroom about 3 nights ago and asked me how I like his new shave job down there. Something he has never done before! He said "you shave why can't I?" I said, "I guess you can."Maybe this bodybuilder guy is my H's supplement supplier for keeping the D*ck hard! Hells bells I don't know. I'm still leaning towards the fact this is not the same guy. Jade Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted July 20, 2005 Share Posted July 20, 2005 So did he shave for YOU or somebody else?? I can't see the guys gathering at the gym showing off their pube hairstyles! It's so weird! Why not just tell you about it? Has he been acting real different though? And how fast is his body shaping? Better not be drug enhancements, etc. Maybe check out online your H's bank account if possible, see if he is taking out $ without you knowing...(Geez, now I'm putting idea's into your head!) Link to post Share on other sites
Author JadeStar Posted July 20, 2005 Author Share Posted July 20, 2005 LOL WWIP pube hairstyles He has been acting different for about 2 or 3 years now. Theres been lots of questions, or as my counselor says "coinsedences" over the past few years. As far as his body shaping, he hardley ever goes to the gym. I think its a waste of money no more often than he goes. WWIP you're not putting ideas in my head, none that weren't already there, well except for the gay thing. Jade Link to post Share on other sites
lilmoma1973 Posted July 20, 2005 Share Posted July 20, 2005 Hey Jade, I feel for you in this situation .. i don't know what to think either . i hope it all works out for you .Why would he want to lie about this person if there is nothing to hide? Why would he store this number in his phone if it is a wrong number? Why he brought it up and was insuiating you called and the call came from his cell? These are the ? you should ask yourseld.. Something is going on!!! But what ? Why would he be taking a supplement to keep his d**K hard ? You say he is a hornball !! Is it possible he wants to take steriod and this is a back up in case his sexual drive changes? I really don't know what to tell you but something is up and you need to find out what.. If he doesn't come clean you might need to say something and tell him you know this person is in the past bills and it also is in his phone book well it use to be !! lol ... The fact that you lied makes you think something is going on and you want to know!! Good Luck hope it all works out for you Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted July 20, 2005 Share Posted July 20, 2005 none that weren't already there, well except for the gay thing Tiki actually brought that up first... 3-some was mine though...I admit it... Well, I must say you're handling it really well. I would have f**k'n lost it by now -either hired a PI or called him on all his bulls***. I commend you and I do hope whatever it is that is going on comes out in the open. Atleast that way you know what you're up against and can face it head on. Not knowing is just as bad, if not worse. Link to post Share on other sites
Author JadeStar Posted July 20, 2005 Author Share Posted July 20, 2005 WWIP I apprecaite that. Actually I'm pretty stressed about the whole thing. I feel I have put alot of energy into all this Sh*t, probably to come up with nothing. I have considered a PI just to see if they can tell me who it is. If my H had not lied about it, then it would be different but he did, and thats what bothers me. I bet a PI is expensive just to find out who someone is. I wish my H was straight forward with me about things, but he either only tells me half of a story or he lies about the whole thing. Sheesh! Jade Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted July 20, 2005 Share Posted July 20, 2005 Originally posted by JadeStar Actually I'm pretty stressed about the whole thing. I think youre makeing a mountain out of a mole hill JADESTAR. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted July 20, 2005 Share Posted July 20, 2005 Ok what about a friend? Get a friend to follow him around for a couple of days. Is cheaper and you know your friend will tell all. Link to post Share on other sites
Author JadeStar Posted July 20, 2005 Author Share Posted July 20, 2005 Thanks Alpha I would expect that from you. Maybe I am but had he not lied, it would be different. Thats the whole thing in a nutshell Alpha. Jade Link to post Share on other sites
tiki Posted July 20, 2005 Share Posted July 20, 2005 No alpha, Jade has had numerous incidents! Jade - Has any $$ been missing which would pay for a PI? Link to post Share on other sites
Author JadeStar Posted July 20, 2005 Author Share Posted July 20, 2005 tiki not that I know of. I do know he goes to the ATM alot. Example one day gets out 40 dollars 2 days later 60, a day or 2 later, maybe 25 or 30 dollars. I know he eats out everyday and gas and all, but I can get out 20 or 30 dollars and it last me all week. When he goes to the store etc its usally that he swipes the card. Not cash. Jade Link to post Share on other sites
tiki Posted July 20, 2005 Share Posted July 20, 2005 So what does he spend all that cash on? Link to post Share on other sites
Author JadeStar Posted July 20, 2005 Author Share Posted July 20, 2005 He says food and gas and sometimes he will go by the nutritional place to get his vitamins and supplements. He also drinks those protein shakes some of those for a big tub are like 30-50 dollars, but he only buys those every so often. Jade Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted July 20, 2005 Share Posted July 20, 2005 Originally posted by JadeStar but I can get out 20 or 30 dollars and it last me all week. can u tell me how to do this too JADESTAR? Link to post Share on other sites
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