kgcolonel Posted February 9, 2017 Share Posted February 9, 2017 Glen, can't really tell what lead to the breakup originally except she told you she wasn't happy. I scanned your prior thread and didn't see any betrayals or such. What do you think lead up to the break? On your specific question, don't initiate any further conversations until she's single...rise up and be respectful just as you would want someone else to be toward you. She however doesn't seem to 1. know what she wants and 2. doesn't seem to be committed to any single direction when it comes to her relationships...i.e. she was seeing someone else when you and she were talking exclusivity. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Glenfiddich Posted February 9, 2017 Author Share Posted February 9, 2017 What lead to the break up was a lack of communication from my part. Although we always had great communication there was a situation that happen to me 4-5 months before the break up I was stress about it, I now realise that my attitude change during that time not toward my ex girlfriend but in general I wasn't mean or anything I was just more quiet I was thinking alot. My ex girlfriend was under alot of pressure and stress during the same time so I decided to keep this from her so she wouldn't stress more. That was not the best idea I ever had... Link to post Share on other sites
Author Glenfiddich Posted February 9, 2017 Author Share Posted February 9, 2017 She told me when we broke up that I was different and she thought i stoped loving her and wanted out of the relationship.. I never thought about that evb ince .that's when she started to slowly distant her self from me until she decided to leave me Link to post Share on other sites
Author Glenfiddich Posted February 15, 2017 Author Share Posted February 15, 2017 I'll try to make this quick Ex girlfriend dump me 2 month's ago she started seeing someone else shortly after. I beg I pleaded, during the first week or two, we then exchange occasional text, went NC for 3 weeks. 2 weeks ago I texted her, we exchange text for 3-4 days, I ask if we can meet and talk she agreed and when we met everything was fine, the conversation was mostly about us.. and she talked a little about her current relationship I didn't say anything about that I just listen. Last thursday we were texting I said I had to go and let me know how you're doing ok? I didnt write neither did she for 3 days On the fourth day she wrote asking me I was and and how was my day, I replied after 10-12 text she ask if we can see each other this week and do something, i said I'd like that how about thursday she said it would be great and propose to have breakfast and take it from there. We continue exchanging text through out the day, I decided to ask her how she would feel if I'd ask her out to dinner one night her answer was I'd love it knowing it was a busy week for her i said we'll tall about it when we see each other she said ok great. She didn't text yesterday and I didn't either She's still seeing and spend time with the other guy, I'm trying to figure out if she's stringing me along, or if things sounds legit... Should I continue what I'm doing now or take a different approach or even stop everything if she's stringing me along Thanks Link to post Share on other sites
Jimmyjackson Posted February 15, 2017 Share Posted February 15, 2017 I'll try to make this quick Ex girlfriend dump me 2 month's ago she started seeing someone else shortly after. I beg I pleaded, during the first week or two, we then exchange occasional text, went NC for 3 weeks. 2 weeks ago I texted her, we exchange text for 3-4 days, I ask if we can meet and talk she agreed and when we met everything was fine, the conversation was mostly about us.. and she talked a little about her current relationship I didn't say anything about that I just listen. Last thursday we were texting I said I had to go and let me know how you're doing ok? I didnt write neither did she for 3 days On the fourth day she wrote asking me I was and and how was my day, I replied after 10-12 text she ask if we can see each other this week and do something, i said I'd like that how about thursday she said it would be great and propose to have breakfast and take it from there. We continue exchanging text through out the day, I decided to ask her how she would feel if I'd ask her out to dinner one night her answer was I'd love it knowing it was a busy week for her i said we'll tall about it when we see each other she said ok great. She didn't text yesterday and I didn't either She's still seeing and spend time with the other guy, I'm trying to figure out if she's stringing me along, or if things sounds legit... Should I continue what I'm doing now or take a different approach or even stop everything if she's stringing me along Thanks If she's seeing another guy and asking to see you then she's stringing the pair of you along... You should walk away, I would not want to be with a girl who is going from guy to guy. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
SevenCity Posted February 15, 2017 Share Posted February 15, 2017 I'll try to make this quick Ex girlfriend dump me 2 month's ago she started seeing someone else shortly after. I beg I pleaded, during the first week or two, we then exchange occasional text, went NC for 3 weeks. 2 weeks ago I texted her, we exchange text for 3-4 days, I ask if we can meet and talk she agreed and when we met everything was fine, the conversation was mostly about us.. and she talked a little about her current relationship I didn't say anything about that I just listen. Last thursday we were texting I said I had to go and let me know how you're doing ok? I didnt write neither did she for 3 days On the fourth day she wrote asking me I was and and how was my day, I replied after 10-12 text she ask if we can see each other this week and do something, i said I'd like that how about thursday she said it would be great and propose to have breakfast and take it from there. We continue exchanging text through out the day, I decided to ask her how she would feel if I'd ask her out to dinner one night her answer was I'd love it knowing it was a busy week for her i said we'll tall about it when we see each other she said ok great. She didn't text yesterday and I didn't either She's still seeing and spend time with the other guy, I'm trying to figure out if she's stringing me along, or if things sounds legit... Should I continue what I'm doing now or take a different approach or even stop everything if she's stringing me along Thanks She is seeing you behind her new bf's back. I bet he was in the picture before you guys officially broke up. She's doing the same to him. Can you trust a girl who does this? What do you think will happen once you get comfortable with her? Link to post Share on other sites
dumbass2 Posted February 15, 2017 Share Posted February 15, 2017 You're wasting your time here. She saw you with another woman so she contacted you. You accepted her back in way too fast. She needed to be the aggressor and you were. She just didn't like seeing you with another woman. Doesn't mean she wanted you back. She has someone else. See how she is treating both of you guys? You want her back so she can continue to see people behind your back? You will resent her and never trust her again. Link to post Share on other sites
Alpha_Male Posted February 17, 2017 Share Posted February 17, 2017 You're her second option. Till her saw you with another girl. So she's panicking. Because her backup started to move away from her. She will have no option once u date another girl. Now the reality is.. She's trying to begging for you to seat down, and don't move at the puppy seat. Ignore her completely. Rise up your dignity. Be silent. Be mysterious. Become cold. Stay NC. And let her bleed. Link to post Share on other sites
Marc878 Posted February 17, 2017 Share Posted February 17, 2017 Are you ok with being played? I wouldn't be. Link to post Share on other sites
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