bc72fgbjbc Posted January 21, 2017 Share Posted January 21, 2017 I had been dating that one girl 3 weeks ago. It lasted for only 3 dates but 3 great ones (had sex on the third one). But she chose to call it off because we ''didn't take time to know each other enough before dating and it's too late'' and because of the possibility I move for college next year. She immediately texted me the day after wishing me a happy new year and that she is sorry. We had a little conversation by phone and she said to me that she still wants to have sex with me but no relationship. So today, 19 days later, we finally saw each other again but this time it was just for sex and it was great. But I have to say that maybe I still feel a little something for her. I'm not sure about it tho and I didn't want to screw it up so I said nothing and each time I said something nice like ''I'm happy you're here right now'' or ''I was looking forward to see you again'' she always looked kind of sad, not exactly sad but I have no better words to describe it. On the other hand, the way we were looking at each other sometimes was special. She even asked me to borrow one of my t-shirts so we could be sure to see each other again. So here I am, lost. I texted her to ask if my t-shirt is comfortable. She said ''Yep'' and I stopped here because and don't really know what to say. I'm don't have a clue of what is going on. Someone can help please? Link to post Share on other sites
MrMeh Posted January 21, 2017 Share Posted January 21, 2017 Stop trying to force a relationship. She's just using you for sex while knowing that you want something more. The sooner you stop any contact the her, the better. Just say that you enjoyed her company, but that you want something more meaningful and reciprocal. Link to post Share on other sites
Author bc72fgbjbc Posted January 21, 2017 Author Share Posted January 21, 2017 Yeah but the sex is great and I'm not even sure I want a relationship, that's the problem I guess Link to post Share on other sites
Author bc72fgbjbc Posted January 21, 2017 Author Share Posted January 21, 2017 I'm certainly not unhappy right now but I feel like she's the right girl for me and that I would be happier in a relationship.The only question is: is it worth it to try and make a move if I'm not even unhappy or sad right now? Link to post Share on other sites
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