Msstt66 Posted January 21, 2017 Share Posted January 21, 2017 Alright so i had been dating this girl for two years, i met her in my 2nd last yearcof highschool typical love at first sight and i did everything i could to get her, started dating in grade 12, relationship was amazing but the passed 3-4 months were just comfortable. I booked at trip to mexico with some buddys and with the way the relationship ship was goin we both wernt feeling it and i decided to say we need some time apart.. Stupid in my part because i thought she was so inlove with me thar she would come running back wen i asked... Is only been two weeks since we broke up and she on my mind all day everyday its almost like the moment we broke up all those same funny feelings i had wen i met her came back and saw everything i took for granted... We have met up once to talk about us and she said she needs to take time to work on herself and grow as a person and said its not bye forever but just bye for now and hugged me and kissed me... i left very confused and even more hurt Its been a week now simce we last met and ive done what i shouldnt do and texted n called her asking to hangout, she has said she would like to but not right now its too soon and need her time to work on her and is sticking with her gut feeling and not her emotions... Its clear i gotta stop talkin to her and remove her from my mind but i just dont know how mych space to give her or if i should give up... i feel that the love and feelings are all still there and shes just playing games with me ( snap chas of her out with other guys etc) I leave for mex in a couple weeks should i not talk to her till after or just wait for her to text me? The biggest part scaring me is her family is moving and i was her reason to stay i dont wanna wait till its to late... what do i do Link to post Share on other sites
Sweetfish Posted January 21, 2017 Share Posted January 21, 2017 Alright so i had been dating this girl for two years, i met her in my 2nd last yearcof highschool typical love at first sight and i did everything i could to get her, started dating in grade 12, relationship was amazing but the passed 3-4 months were just comfortable. I booked at trip to mexico with some buddys and with the way the relationship ship was goin we both wernt feeling it and i decided to say we need some time apart.. Stupid in my part because i thought she was so inlove with me thar she would come running back wen i asked... Is only been two weeks since we broke up and she on my mind all day everyday its almost like the moment we broke up all those same funny feelings i had wen i met her came back and saw everything i took for granted... We have met up once to talk about us and she said she needs to take time to work on herself and grow as a person and said its not bye forever but just bye for now and hugged me and kissed me... i left very confused and even more hurt Its been a week now simce we last met and ive done what i shouldnt do and texted n called her asking to hangout, she has said she would like to but not right now its too soon and need her time to work on her and is sticking with her gut feeling and not her emotions... Its clear i gotta stop talkin to her and remove her from my mind but i just dont know how mych space to give her or if i should give up... i feel that the love and feelings are all still there and shes just playing games with me ( snap chas of her out with other guys etc) I leave for mex in a couple weeks should i not talk to her till after or just wait for her to text me? The biggest part scaring me is her family is moving and i was her reason to stay i dont wanna wait till its to late... what do i do Im going to put you on the spot. Did you have sex in Mexico? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Msstt66 Posted January 21, 2017 Author Share Posted January 21, 2017 Havnt even gon to mex yet... i leave in two weeks Link to post Share on other sites
ElizabethIII Posted January 21, 2017 Share Posted January 21, 2017 i thought she was so inlove with me thar she would come running back wen i asked... Ouch. Valuable lesson learned: you dumped her and you ain't all that as she doesn't want you back. You aren't indispensable or irreplaceable. Dont be so arrogant in your next relationship and dont take people for granted and dump them assuming you will get them back. Link to post Share on other sites
Sweetfish Posted January 22, 2017 Share Posted January 22, 2017 Havnt even gon to mex yet... i leave in two weeks Did you have intentions of having sex in Mexico? Link to post Share on other sites
SerPundnes Posted January 22, 2017 Share Posted January 22, 2017 Ouch. Valuable lesson learned: you dumped her and you ain't all that as she doesn't want you back. You aren't indispensable or irreplaceable. Dont be so arrogant in your next relationship and dont take people for granted and dump them assuming you will get them back. ^This right here. Some people take their BF/GF for granted. You don't know what you've lost, til you lose it. Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted January 22, 2017 Share Posted January 22, 2017 Respect her wishes now, and leave her be. She knows how to find you if she wants to talk. You learned a tough lesson here: don't assume you're so awesome that you can break up with her and then have her back when you feel like it. It's highly disrespectful and unkind. She knows she can do better, frankly. It's a shame you didn't value her more. I suspect that this is actually more about your ego than her. If you felt she was really great, you probably wouldn't have let her go to begin with. Link to post Share on other sites
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