Danielerae9 Posted January 22, 2017 Posted January 22, 2017 Hi my husband and and I have been married almost 14 years and have 6 children. Even after catching him watching men on men porn he had always denied he was bisexual. We'll just a few weeks ago he FINALLY felt comfortable enough to tell me. He said he was always afraid I'd leave him. I could never leave him for being someone he was born to be. I love him with all my heart but I know that he will never fully be mine. So we are both looking for someone (a man) who would be willing to talk to him and answer questions he may have and be there for him the way I can't. Also if there is a wife of a bi man who would be willing to share their experiences with me...
kmpisces Posted January 22, 2017 Posted January 22, 2017 Do you mean he will talk to another bisexual male? His heart can be yours even if he has attractions to men. I have a friend who is bisexual. But he is married, happily so. He has no relations with men.
Mr. Lucky Posted January 22, 2017 Posted January 22, 2017 So we are both looking for someone (a man) who would be willing to talk to him and answer questions he may have and be there for him the way I can't. An awful lot of ways one could interpret " be there for him the way I can't". Do you mean you're looking for a fellow LS poster to converse with? Mr. Lucky
road Posted January 22, 2017 Posted January 22, 2017 He's nothing but gay. He has tried to suppress that but no longer can. He did so because he wanted the "normal" family life with the house, kids, dog. He got those things and now he no longer has motivation to deny him wanting men. 2
Mr. Lucky Posted January 23, 2017 Posted January 23, 2017 He's nothing but gay. He has tried to suppress that but no longer can. 6 kids(!) is an awful lot of suppressing: my husband and and I have been married almost 14 years and have 6 children. Mr. Lucky
MJJean Posted January 23, 2017 Posted January 23, 2017 Hi my husband and and I have been married almost 14 years and have 6 children. Even after catching him watching men on men porn he had always denied he was bisexual. We'll just a few weeks ago he FINALLY felt comfortable enough to tell me. He said he was always afraid I'd leave him. I could never leave him for being someone he was born to be. I love him with all my heart but I know that he will never fully be mine. So we are both looking for someone (a man) who would be willing to talk to him and answer questions he may have and be there for him the way I can't. Also if there is a wife of a bi man who would be willing to share their experiences with me... What do you mean "he'll never be fully yours"? You are his wife! He should belong to you and you alone. That's even in the vows, if I remember right. I'm married to a bisexual man. It's exactly like being married to a heterosexual man. We're monogamous and that means he doesn't have sexual contact with anyone else, regardless of gender. That simple. 3
Ophelia27 Posted January 25, 2017 Posted January 25, 2017 What do you mean "he'll never be fully yours"? You are his wife! He should belong to you and you alone. That's even in the vows, if I remember right. I'm married to a bisexual man. It's exactly like being married to a heterosexual man. We're monogamous and that means he doesn't have sexual contact with anyone else, regardless of gender. That simple. This. I'm a bisexual woman yet I am completely devoted to my marraige with my husband. I love him and chose him. I don't know why people assume that when their partner is bisexual all of a sudden monogamy goes out of the window. Bisexual means he likes both men and females. It doesn't mean having to date both sexes at the same time. 4
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