benpom Posted January 26, 2017 Share Posted January 26, 2017 We had a very bad divorce 2 months ago, with lawyers involved. Our situation dramatically improved since the divorce became final, but now we are at a stagnant situation. Whenever I ask him out (twice), he said no. Then he would ask to spend time with me and kids together a few days later. He has said he does not know the future. So my guess is that he is open to rekindling our relationship, but at the same time, he is not ready to be open to me. We have been in this back and forth stagnant situation for a month. Sometimes, he says disrespectful things on Facebook (in a indirect way). Those days, I really wish we could just go separate ways. Other days, I see him being exhausted from this situation, then I feel sorry about wanting to move on. Seeing my children crying and begging us to stay together also makes me want to work things out. I feel so stuck and not sure how to move forward. Link to post Share on other sites
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