Ilovelifeforwhatcome Posted January 29, 2017 Share Posted January 29, 2017 I have issues in my LDR, but after talking to him about it, those have slightly changed. I really care for my bf, but he is lazy. Yes I admit I'm lazy as well, though I am working through it. A couple years ago I finished college and now I work a professional job after obtaining an extra license. I want to go back to school. My bf isn't in college, he finished high school and has been working a seasonal job/job for a friend. When I first met him, he was steadily employed, now he is unsure day to day if he will work. This really concerns me, he went to sleep really late and got up at about 4 in the afternoon, he doesn't do it often, but its concerning. I have my late days, but never that late. He is looking for a job and looking into school. The one thing on his side is that he is young (younger then me anyways). I love him for who he is, but am I screwed if I stay? Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted January 29, 2017 Share Posted January 29, 2017 Well you're screwed if you want a partner who will contribute to a joint lifestyle. Someone who will help pay rent/buy a house/contribute to groceries/gas..... Link to post Share on other sites
Marc878 Posted January 29, 2017 Share Posted January 29, 2017 I doubt his character flaw will change. The question is why would you want that? Link to post Share on other sites
Simple Logic Posted January 29, 2017 Share Posted January 29, 2017 3 possibilities: he will do better, not change, or do worse. The question is do you wanna possibly waste time to see what happens. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
BuddyX Posted January 29, 2017 Share Posted January 29, 2017 One thing I learned that "looking into" is not the same as doing. What is holding him back from applying? Link to post Share on other sites
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