I'm getting older - no dates - sister and friends all married [UPDATE: quit OLD]

[Miss Peach]

OP - What is your best ways to get women? Some men do better on OLD and some do better IRL. If you do better IRL make small talk with women, join some groups, etc.

 

I know this wasn't the point of your post, but coffee and lunch are really bad dates/first impressions in my opinion.

 

I actually prefer these for OLD meets as they are low cost/commitment and can be as long or short as necessary. The initial meet I'm trying to access chemistry and whether I want to see the person again. I can't figure that out through a picture and a few facts.

[d0nnivain]

It's not a bad site. It's just not the site for you. Have you thought about what I suggested before in another thread that you investigate a smaller niche site focused on the Korean women you want to meet?

[bluefeather]

so in 3 months you've had 9 dates? and you're complaining, wtf! lol That's like 3 dates a month - not bad. I'd consider sticking to OLD, but upping your dating game.