kinder Posted July 21, 2005 Share Posted July 21, 2005 Okay, I went through a horrible break up last year and I ended up meeting the nicest guy in January but I just wasn't ready but didn't realize that before hand. I ended up being a bag to him and just told him I didn't want a relationship and wasn't ready. That was that. I never stopped liking him and now I want him back. We ended up running into each other a few weeks ago and I told him i still liked him. He said a few days ago he was still interested and wanted to be together. I spoke to him last night and for some reason I just asked him if he was sure about him and I being together and he said no actually I'm not because I don't want you to do what you did last time. He said he was really into me and then all the sudden I was gone, which I was. I don't know what to say besides what I already have about teh fact that I wasn't ready for a relationship and I'm sorry. Any advice???????????????? PLEASE Link to post Share on other sites
Merin Posted July 21, 2005 Share Posted July 21, 2005 Have you explained to him why you weren't ready for a relationship at the time? Have you told him what changes you've made in yourself/your life? Best way to convince someone of changes you've made and how sincere you are is by showing... Take this slow, show him you're into him and see where it goes. Can't blame the Guy for being cautious here... Good Luck Link to post Share on other sites
Author kinder Posted July 21, 2005 Author Share Posted July 21, 2005 Yes I have told him why I wasn't ready for a relationship at that time. How can I show him that I am sincere other then phone calls and asking to do things with him? Link to post Share on other sites
Author kinder Posted July 21, 2005 Author Share Posted July 21, 2005 I would really like some more advice if anyone has any. Link to post Share on other sites
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