Maybe hot n cold signals

[Trajedi]

Might be in wrong forum will post anyways..

 

My ex and I are in the middle of divorce. We were together 3 1/2 years. Married for 6 months. We argued quite a bit after 2 yrs about little things and I wasn't paying attention to her as my SO. She also has a daughter that got along with me very well.

 

We moved into my grams house right before we got married to take care of her and it went downhill.. didn't notice she was getting depressed and giving my signs to move out.. eventually she had enough and moved in with her mother..

 

It's been a month since she left and would send me pics of our dog and text about issues she was having and minor updates..

 

Now, Friday morning around 2 am I was in a car wreck and only texted her. No response till 7:30 when I sent her a picture of me in the hospital.. she was going to pick me up..was already home and she came to my house..

 

Here is the confusing part.. She layed next to me and cuddled.. tried to kiss me but couldn't with swollen lip.. told me she missed me and loved me.. no sex but close

. When she left she gave me a tight hugs and grasped my hand..

 

Three days later I ask if she would like to have casual dinner.. denied cause emotions are little raw.. Also said she didn't remember saying those things and dosent know why she cuddled with me except didn't want me hurt..

 

Told me we were never getting back together and wanted to be just friends for now..

 

Does any of this sound normal?

[ZayKayWill]

Sounds like either she's confused or is just keeping you on the hook in case she doesn't find someone 'better'....or both. If you really love her you can wait if you want. Otherwise I would just move on. The 2nd option usually is the hardest to do. Trust me, I know. Sorry man. :/

[Trajedi]

Forgot to mention she still has stuff over..

Ex. Bed and furniture..

Can't afford storage for it..

 

I think she is confused as well.. there is love.. Moving on is my best option if she continues..