NR8492 Posted January 31, 2017 Share Posted January 31, 2017 Well me and my girlfriend ended on really bad terms because of a lot of reasons long story short I went off on her and she did me wrong but I ended up begging for her back but she said no and she never wants to be NOTHING more then friends ever again and that she never loved me and she was forcing herself to be with me I don't know if she was just saying that or really meant it but that was about a month ago so I texted her about a week ago and we were talking and everything was good again we were flirting a little bit and talking about some of our memories, we were talking for about 6 days until yesterday she randomly said she didn't want to text anymore when I asked why she said because there is no reason to text but "we are still cool" I know that sounds like she friend zoned me but it doesn't make sense to me because she was just flirting with me, I think it's because she started talking to some guy. I really want her back I love this girl but I don't know what to do?? Can anyone help me with some advice should I wait it out or what?? Link to post Share on other sites
Marc878 Posted January 31, 2017 Share Posted January 31, 2017 You can't make her do anything. Go your own way. She's told you she's not interested. Block her and move on like she's done 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Sweetfish Posted January 31, 2017 Share Posted January 31, 2017 What does did you wrong mean.. what she do? Link to post Share on other sites
BAcK Posted January 31, 2017 Share Posted January 31, 2017 She has not friend zoned you. But it is clear she is not interested staying in touch with you. And the flirting thing is just a time pass. I mean she is responding to you just to kill time and when she has better things to do, she simply avoids you. You should stop contacting her under such circumstances. And if she initiates contact you should remind her of her own words. It is a confidence booster. Link to post Share on other sites
Rouik Posted February 1, 2017 Share Posted February 1, 2017 That's a tough spot to be in, she seems pretty clear about not wanting to be more then friends. That's really hard when you still care for them, but you have to take care of yourself also. I would say let it go and move forward with your life, holding on now just seems like it would cause you a lot of unneeded pain. Best of luck as you move forward, you have my thoughts and prayers. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted February 1, 2017 Share Posted February 1, 2017 Why do you want her back? You said yourself she "did you wrong". She hasn't apologized for whatever she did. She told you she never loved you & had to force herself to be with you. Now she's talking to another guy, a sign she has moved on. Even if she was talking to you & flirting with you for 6 days, those were words not actions. They also weren't the words "I want to get back together." You are trying to hang on to something that already ended. Going backwards in life is a bad direction. Move forward. Let this end already. Link to post Share on other sites
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