dreameater Posted February 8, 2017 Share Posted February 8, 2017 I broke up with my ExB which I dated with her for 6 months only. I am the dumper... I dumped her because the image of my previous ExA (2 years) was all over my mind from time to time... I need to recover it and make sure that I lover ExB and not to use her as a emotional support. It has been 2 years now... The last time I met her was at my friend's birthday last year and she was still single. She really loved me and was even trying to get back at that time. I declined... I did not date anyone since as I need to clear up my mind. Now, the coping is lifted and I realized that I still love her and very much. I tried to reach her and a dude replied me back telling me to get off and stop the triangle love... I presume she has a boyfriend during this one year. She then comes to facebook to apologize by telling me that it was not her number. What should I do now? Wait until she breaks up with her current boyfriend, so I can get in, or just get her back by initializing the contact? If this the correct thing to do? Everyday I keep thinking about her and I cannot sleep at night. Dating a new girl will make me think about her since I dumped her for no reason... Any idea what is the correct thing to do? Link to post Share on other sites
dumbass2 Posted February 8, 2017 Share Posted February 8, 2017 You dumped her for a good reason. You weren't over your ex and couldn't give your all to her. Yeah, I'd probably move on. She's with that guy and even though it may not be serious (which is why she lied about the number) I would not want to get involved in that. I think you need to move on past her so you can date again with an open mind and not have any ex's clouding things up. Get a fresh start with someone new down the road when you feel you are ready. Wish I could give you some hope, but the other guy in the picture would seal it for me. Link to post Share on other sites
Author dreameater Posted February 11, 2017 Author Share Posted February 11, 2017 (edited) You dumped her for a good reason. You weren't over your ex and couldn't give your all to her. Yeah, I'd probably move on. She's with that guy and even though it may not be serious (which is why she lied about the number) I would not want to get involved in that. I think you need to move on past her so you can date again with an open mind and not have any ex's clouding things up. Get a fresh start with someone new down the road when you feel you are ready. Wish I could give you some hope, but the other guy in the picture would seal it for me. Really appreciated for taking the time to reply. Having another point of view from someone can help me, since my friends just tell me the basic is to move on. They do not really understand the coping feeling because they never went through this. I dumped her for another reason too (apart having my previous in mind), but it is not major for the breakup. We had a transparent dating... Her father is protectionism and did not like me as he is worried that this is not a real relationship. I went to see them after I saw her a couple of time because I was serious... They did not have enough confidence. So, every time I want to see her, she has to park her car in a parking lot next to her place pretending to go to gym, then get into my car... I did not like it and did not express it to her. I just dumped her instead... This is why I feel so bad right now... As you said, finding another person will solve this issue. I just feel sad that she was the right person to me... Edited February 11, 2017 by dreameater Link to post Share on other sites
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