understand50 Posted February 18, 2017 Share Posted February 18, 2017 Actually, I can't understand her way of thinking at all. She had even gone as far as to send me emails after their A was over saying that she wanted her and I to be friends, and she said I could always talk to her about my M and she could give advice. That makes no sense. My husband and i were talking about the situation last night, and I was getting more and more ticked off. He finally ended up at her, while trying not to do so. He pointed out to me how I'm stressing myself out about trying to be understanding of her, and it might be better for me to just allow myself to be angry at the situation for a little while. he's right It is so much less stressful. It actually feels really good. I'm still ignoring her, and she can go on to harass someone else. Her spouse knows what she's like ( she's eared herself a reputation that follows her from base to base) and he married her anyway. wmacbride, I would just be sad for her. She has a new baby and husband, and still trying to reach out to you and yours. If I was you, I would work at ignoring her. One of the best insults given is Bogart to Peter Lorrie in Casablanca. Lorrie "Rick, you despise me don't you?" Bogart "I suppose I would, if I gave it some thought" Do not waist a thought. I wish you luck...... 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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