Miss Clavel Posted March 19, 2018 Share Posted March 19, 2018 did your ex bff have the baby? did she get divorced? did you report him to the police? Link to post Share on other sites
road Posted March 19, 2018 Share Posted March 19, 2018 Firstly, that is a personal choice for people if they want to date after a few days, weeks, months, years, it's up to them. Secondly, I was not looking to "date" anyone. This person was a great friend who offered a wonderful friendship and support, it happened naturally. I wasn't looking for anything. After being assaulted by my ex and treated like dirt, frightened for my life, I don't blame myself for getting close to someone who finally showed me kindness, consideration, support and who was there for me. Free to chose never makes it the right decision. Standard IC advice is to wait to heal from the end of the old relationship before dating and starting a new one. Yes this new relationship was so good that it crashed and burned and your new man is gone. What went down was because you were not ready to date. You just used a man to self medicate yourself. You let this man believe that you would be ready to commit when you were not ready to, and would not be able to commit. Link to post Share on other sites
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