Author jackson11 Posted February 20, 2017 Author Share Posted February 20, 2017 What the heck! Only 10 days away and you're freaking out?? Chill out, man. You can't base your judgment on her first 10 days after a radical move. Get out and have a life. You only mentioned being online. What about you going out, seeing friends, meeting up family members, visiting people, devoting time to some hobby or volunteering for something to use up your empty time? Being so obsessive will only damage this fragile relationship. It's fragile, because you've been with this girl for only 6 months. It's fragile because it didn't have much time to develop yet in all its aspects, and it's already facing struggles (distance, communication...). That's going to be negative for you and for the relationship itself. You'll be less and less interesting in her eyes, if all you do is "mope around". Anything else but you will be more exciting. No like I totally agree with what you've said. It was really only the first two days that I was feeling really ****. Since then I've been well occupied and everything seems to be fine. Also, when speaking to her I never showed signs of moping around unless I was talking to her about it. Also, it's not that I'm online all the time, but I generally check my phone often when I'm out because I have to check my messages. I agree that I can't base my judgement over 10 days and obviously will have to see how it goes from here. Seems to be that waiting until she is ready to talk is the way to go, which has no real negative externality on me. Where as, if I message her IL start questioning all sorts of possibilities. Obviously IL have to make contact but I'm sure that will get easier as time progresses. Cheers for the cold hard truth Link to post Share on other sites
Ronnys93 Posted February 20, 2017 Share Posted February 20, 2017 No like I totally agree with what you've said. It was really only the first two days that I was feeling really ****. Since then I've been well occupied and everything seems to be fine. Also, when speaking to her I never showed signs of moping around unless I was talking to her about it. Also, it's not that I'm online all the time, but I generally check my phone often when I'm out because I have to check my messages. I agree that I can't base my judgement over 10 days and obviously will have to see how it goes from here. Seems to be that waiting until she is ready to talk is the way to go, which has no real negative externality on me. Where as, if I message her IL start questioning all sorts of possibilities. Obviously IL have to make contact but I'm sure that will get easier as time progresses. Cheers for the cold hard truth The keyword for everything you've just wrote here is balance. Remember that! Link to post Share on other sites
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