WilyWill Posted February 22, 2017 Posted February 22, 2017 (edited) She wants to know the extent of the cheating, so that she has an idea of whether she can forgive him or not. Infidelity isn't as simple as "You know he's cheating, so leave." She really doesn't know what's going on, or how far it's gone. She's in a position where she'd be inclined, emotionally, to believe him if he gave some reasonable explanation. "We were planning a surprise party for you", etc. Then she spends the rest of life in a state of limbo and self-doubt. She wants the truth so that she can make an informed decision. This will not be accomplished by her directly confronting her husband or her friend. She needs to catch them in the act, bluff a confession out of someone, or do the polygraph as Sampson has suggested. Edited February 22, 2017 by WilyWill 1
Author sacredspace747 Posted February 24, 2017 Author Posted February 24, 2017 Thank you WilyWill and again everyone..... so much happening at the moment. I will fill you in when I get some time! My WH is doing his best to prove to me how much he loves our kids and myself. I truly believe the A is over. I am now doing my best to heal and forgive, BUT that is going to take a VERY long time!.... I dont even know where to start. I am taking one day at a time as always and looking after myself so I can take care of the kids etc. Thanks again for all your honesty and support. I read your notes constantly! THANK YOU.... Blessings to all
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