velvet666 Posted July 24, 2005 Share Posted July 24, 2005 I'm sure this topic has been talked about before but I dont have time to look through all posts right now. I wanted to know peoples opinion of this..if you were with someone a little over 2 yrs and they broke up with you not necessarily to be with someone else but then in time that is what happened, and even right before they started goin out with the new person they were still seeing you is there a better chance of getting them back if you stay in touch and talk once every week or so..or if you dont talk to them at all unless they contact you? which method works the best at getting them to realize they want to come back or miss you? Link to post Share on other sites
smile Posted July 24, 2005 Share Posted July 24, 2005 That kinda happened with me. In fact the ex started contacting me even when he was with the new girl. And I was with him. We were sleeping together, hanging out, I was his best friend and even went with him to his family functions. But when I asked for more he made me feel like I was crazy. He wasn't trying to get me back into a relationship. I was just comfortable and sort of a sure thing. I would say make him come to you. And don't settle for anything less than what you want. You need this time to get over him. I wish I would've stayed away. I sincerely do. Because now I am more hurt than I was when he left me. You are going to do what you feel, and you should. I mean I can only tell you what happened with me. I don't know your ex and maybe he just needed that time away to see he wants you... but I don't know. Good luck with everything. It sucks when exes leave you and then you stay around through the new person. I know you want to be there and prove you will be there no matter what... but you need to show him you deserve respect. And I don't think that can happen when you are subjected to stories about the new girl. I know I was there. Link to post Share on other sites
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