Author Life lessons Posted March 27, 2017 Author Share Posted March 27, 2017 Your right it is the The Other Man / Woman - LoveShack.org Community Forums forum. There are many threads that deal with what you are going though from your point of view. I am sorry to say your AP is the OM which makes you the OW. Don't let labels such as cluster B, or BPD own you, they are only guidelines to measure extent. Thanks Jersey. I definitely will not let a label keep me from living my life and knowing right from wrong....or having that label so that I can excuse my actions. Regardless, I would never blame what I've done on that. I knew better than to do it. I knew it was wrong! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Life lessons Posted March 27, 2017 Author Share Posted March 27, 2017 Yep. Same here. We all need to vent a little and not keep this inside. Just admitting where I'm at trying to help someone understand from a BS's POV helps me. So, tell us all that you need and no doubt there are many here that'll help. Mike, I see that you're a BS...but I can't locate your "story".....am I missing it or are you not sharing it at the moment? Link to post Share on other sites
GoldenR Posted March 27, 2017 Share Posted March 27, 2017 I am sorry to say your AP is the OM which makes you the OW. I thought OM/OW only applied to married people's APs? Am i wrong? Link to post Share on other sites
Mrs. John Adams Posted March 27, 2017 Share Posted March 27, 2017 I thought OM/OW only applied to married people's APs? Am i wrong? In order for LL to be the other woman...her affair partner has to be married or in a a relationship. For example...I had an affair with a single man...I was not the other woman. John had an affair with a single woman...therefore he was not the other man. Link to post Share on other sites
road Posted March 28, 2017 Share Posted March 28, 2017 AP only indicates the person is having an affair. OM or OW does not automatically indicate marital status. Though it does indicate that they are having an affair. MM or MW means they are married. On infidelity forums it indicates the marital status of the AP. Link to post Share on other sites
GoldenR Posted March 28, 2017 Share Posted March 28, 2017 In order for LL to be the other woman...her affair partner has to be married or in a a relationship. For example...I had an affair with a single man...I was not the other woman. John had an affair with a single woman...therefore he was not the other man. Then she's not his OW, like I thought. Link to post Share on other sites
MikeM 1028 Posted March 28, 2017 Share Posted March 28, 2017 Mike, I see that you're a BS...but I can't locate your "story".....am I missing it or are you not sharing it at the moment? LL. I haven't posted my story. I've been reading everyone else's to get an idea on how I deal with my issues. I might someday. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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