How do we know we want them back for real?

[Bromeo]

Ordinarily I wouldn't weigh in on a thread like this.

 

If I determined that a lady I cared for was vacillating between myself and another man, there would be back to the future flame trails behind me.

 

I dated a very beautiful executive from LinkedIn. One evening I was exploring the intricacies of Call of Duty, and she called and stated:

 

Her: (Insert girl nerd executive sounding voice) "Dave, we have been dating for 14 days. I am ready for a committed relationship where we see no one but each other. I have some other options I am considering, so I need your response asap."

Dave: "You really should consider those other options. Peace."

Her: "waitwaitwait"

Dave: "bye Felicia."

 

You get it.

 

I have 0, and I mean 0 tolerance for this. At 38 I seek out centered, calm, communicative women. Especially after the nightmare I just am recovering from.

 

"I'm confused, I don't know what I want."

"Should I choose this man, or this man."

And best - "I'm a serial dater"

 

Rubbish.

 

This smacks of being bored and dating for free meals, and epitomizes the worst of our disposable/breakup culture.