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The Genders approch to Romantic Love


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So what do you think the biggest differnce is to the Men and Women when it comes to romantic love.

 

When I talk to my male friends. Physical Affection is a must. Conversation as well and loyalty. They don't want their Women to be so friendly that they are able to make a friend of the opposite sex.

 

Women its hard to say. I feel like my Male friends are bit more honest. It feels like my female friends like that status of being in a relationship. They want kids. Except for the 65 yr old lady friend as the has a son and grandkids already. They want their man to be into the family activiites. THey are less about going out as a couple on date night. It feels like everything has to revolve around the kids and the men seem semi bored with that for some reason.

 

What do you all think,

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What do you all think,

 

I think you would be better served by appreciating the fact that women aren't all alike.

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I don't have a cynical agenda. I go by my experiance and hearing/observing my friends/families thoughts on relationships.

 

All my male friends that are in happy relationships. The woman was the one to start things off. My male friends that were more the driving force towards the women. They have had a harder time of things.

 

All my friends that stayed home had it harder in the love relationship era of their lives, Vs the ones that got out on their own part. The ones that stayed home till marriage, which was mid to late 20's. Their lives have been very simplisitc with their wives. The ones that left home and had their own place for yrs. Their love lives were much harder. One friend of mine had it so rough. I thought he was going to jump off a bridge. I was really worried about him.

 

I will admit. I am starting to get cynical. I don't even know if I can even settle down in my head. It would take a very special woman to get me to do that. I just find the women around me in terms of dating not to be straight shooters.

 

Its like I have to let a woman come to me more than me being the driving force. Every time I choose a romantic prospect. It feels like there are obstacles in my way. Where as I am over 110 % sure no woman has any major obstacles towards me. With the exception is that I am not going to be rushing any Kids/Marriage in our Relationship from the onset.

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