Any girls out there reconsidering their break up?

[eddpad]

A majority of the time I usually find that it's the guy who usually reconsiders and goes back to the ex. Are there any girls out there who broke up with their ex and now want to go back with them?

 

What were the reasons for the breakup? Did you end it bad or good? Did you keep contact with him? And why are you going back to him? Realize that you took this person for granted? Or coudl you just not find anyone better than him?

[blackendangel13]

My ex and I were together a year and a half and have been broken up for a year. It was a mutual break-up. We were at very hard points in life and being together made it too easy. In other words, we were focusing more on the relationship than fixing our personal problems. We broke up, I was hurt. We tried to be friends but I knew from day one that that would never be enough for me and let him go. He kept emailing me on and off despite the fact that I was with someone else and wanted him to leave me alone.

 

The relationship turned to hell and he (my ex) and I started talking again. We have been talking since (about 3 months) and even hung out once a few weeks ago. We are enjoying each other's company again.

 

I never wanted to break-up but I see that it wasn't the worst thing for us. We have both grown and if we get back together will be better for each other. Who knows though. I missed his companionship more than anything. I don't want to go back because I couldn't find anyone better. My best friend is probably a million times better than my ex but thats another story. I miss the way my ex and I could talk and hang out and the intimacy level we had. I think we both realize that we both took each other for granted. Who knows what will come of it.

[sundrop]

I would love to get back with my ex. It's only been two weeks since our break up. It was my choice, I want more , I want to know we had a future and he couldn't tell me we did. I felt he kept making excuses. So I had to do the hardest thing in my life and call it off. We had been together for three years and had broken up once before for about three months.

Right now we are not talking, but I only hope in the future we will be. He is my best friend, and I am his and we had a great relationship, other than he couldn't commit to me about the future.

[Da_1_n_OnlyN3na]

ok well my break up had a reason..many things happened for me to go ahead and break thins off. first before i tell my story (dont worry ill make it really short.. dont wanna go back and think about it....) i have always been getting hurt always sumthing happens and i get my lil heart broken so i always broke things off with exes b4 they dumped me.. and i didnt even like em that much untill sum one came along in my life.. it was so great.. ..it was the best time of my life..

 

he came right when i needed some one to lean on and tell them my problems.. we had a great time 2guether although it was a long distance thing.. we only saw each other every weekend.. i would have wished to see him everyday and for more time but it was impossible but i was still happy that i saw him atleast for a lil bit and feel him close to me and feel safe for a couple of hours.. ..but things happened..

 

one day in the morning he was supposed to come to my house but he didnt call or anything and i got worried so i went online and his friend was on and i asked him where he was and he told me he had to go to work and i was like ok thats fyne...then he told me that they were talking the hight before and he said " maybe you have stronger feelings for him then him towards u, maybe you like him more than he does" and that made me wonder and ask him why he said that nd he said many things to me that really hurt me and he said that he didnt know if he was going to break up with me or not..

 

well in my head i thought you know what hes going to do it hes going to dump me and i cant get hurt.. so i IMed him when he was away and told him all this shyte that i thought would hurt

him and i said many ugly things i didnt even want to say but i wanted to hit him where it most hurt..then he came back and he read all that and he imed me back and he said wtf why r u telling me all this i never did anything to you wtf is wrong with you? and after i had read what i told him i regret saying everything and i was apoligizing and telling him that i didnt want to lose him and that i wanted to be with him but he wouldnt listen.. thn i called him and he was very mad and he told me to leave him alone that he didnt want to talk to me..

 

he said maybe we should leave it here.. u dumped me lets keep it that way and he said maybe you will find another guy and forget about me and i said but i dont want any one i want you.. i really loved him and to tell u the truth i still do.. like the first day..

 

if i hadnt jumped to conclusions this wouldnt have happened..i should have talked to him before saying what i said.. but later we started talking again but he already has a girfriend..he loves her and so i decided to step away and let him be happy so i stopped going online and disapeared for a while..

 

he called to ask me if we could meet after a month with out knowing anything about each other..and we kissed.. yea there was akiss that we should have prevented but couldnt.. it was wrong because of his girfriend and it was low.. then i desapeared for a while again trying to hide from what happend...he called again and he came to my house...with his friend and we had fun we had a staring moment and we had fun after all.. then when he was leeving i stared at him leave because i miss him and i didnt want him to leave he asked me on the phone if there was a reason why i did that but i just said that i was just watching him leave just in case some one came and kidnapped him lol i know stupid excuse lol but i couldnt tell him the truth..

 

well hes been calling alot and wantts to come see me again...im praying to god for him to disappear from my life and let me live and praying for him to be happy with hsi girfriend who he loves and is happy with.. she can give everything i could never .. and she is everything i could never be for him..i just know that no matter what happened.. he will always be my baby....