You remind of my ex-fiance and how he used to shut down everytime there was a problem. The girl was dealing with you living with your ex-wife and you both were in a LDR, fights naturally happen in this case. You were the one that was not patient and just disappeared a couple of times. I agree with her not marrying you because you hurt her twice, do you know how depressed and sad she was both times ?

Yes, I do.