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OP,

 

 

I do believe you when you say your not in anyway interested in a reconciliation but.... there has to be a reason why you would update this thread. Maybe your just wanting to rub this guy's nose in the dirt..... who knows. Clearly it's feeding your ego.

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I'm more curious about what happen to the real estate agent

 

Hey! :D

 

Thanks for asking about him! I'm looking at a house now, I'm not sure if I got it yet but when the time comes I think I might ask him out

 

Still not sure if he's into me, didnt seem like it at first. He's a good agent...attentive and polite. I'm just not good at gauging a guy's interest if I meet him off OLDing.

 

We'll see what happens with this house first! :D

 

This little cottage in the woods will be my new love if I get it. Its so cute! :love:

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Hey! :D

 

Thanks for asking about him! I'm looking at a house now, I'm not sure if I got it yet but when the time comes I think I might ask him out

 

Still not sure if he's into me, didnt seem like it at first. He's a good agent...attentive and polite. I'm just not good at gauging a guy's interest if I meet him off OLDing.

 

We'll see what happens with this house first! :D

 

This little cottage in the woods will be my new love if I get it. Its so cute! :love:

 

 

Nice.. keep us posted.

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Got this text from him....

 

"So depressed I really just feel like f*cking dying. I'll never find another job as good as the one I had. I'm just so upset with everything. I just feel so stuck and lost. Sigh. Whatever *my name*. I forgive you. But I wish you never did that. I dont know why we could never talk. I really have no clue. But anyway. Bye."

 

I'm not posting this for any specific reason other than to pat myself on the back for leaving him. His gaslighting abilities were always top notch.

 

"I forgive you"? Its pretty crazy that after voilating my privacy several times...he forgives me. Of course I never got an apology for what he did. I dont need or want one....his moral compass is just so off base

 

He doesnt understand why we dont talk? Probably because he was cheating on me our entire 2.5 year relationship

 

He always says, 'bye' after one of these rants. Only to text me again a few weeks later. He thinks I'll text him back if I think I wont hear from him. Havent texted him back in almost 2 years...not sure why I'd start now

 

I'm not posting this because I'm upset or any feeling any other emotion besides, 'thank god I got out of that'

 

I've been reading the infidelity section of LS and I've noticed how so many cheating spouses have this type of mentality. The blame shifting, gas lighting, viticimizing tactics. I'm glad I didnt marry this one :)

 

Block him. He's really messed up and a total douche! He's trying to make YOU feel bad and guilty all the meanwhile he's the one with the issues, not you.

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