Author donewrong88 Posted March 31, 2017 Author Share Posted March 31, 2017 On a side note. Me and my wife had a conversation today about that fact we have nothing in common. I'm a gym/crossfit going protein eating drinking Soldier. She's a book reading , story writing, fruit/veg eating vegan - who detests anything meat/protein orientated. We've not a great deal in common, I've tried helping into fitness and gym going to ease us into something that we both like. She's tried getting me into reading and writing but in all honesty nothing seems to work. The previous issues aside I'm not sure where we go from here . Link to post Share on other sites
DKT3 Posted March 31, 2017 Share Posted March 31, 2017 I'm normally one who is all about being honest...... HOWEVER, in this case, you've both cheated and you both kinda know that the other has cheated. In a way, since neither is being my honest it's somewhat a silent agreement. Maybe just put the it behind you and move on. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Southern Sun Posted March 31, 2017 Share Posted March 31, 2017 On a side note. Me and my wife had a conversation today about that fact we have nothing in common. I'm a gym/crossfit going protein eating drinking Soldier. She's a book reading , story writing, fruit/veg eating vegan - who detests anything meat/protein orientated. We've not a great deal in common, I've tried helping into fitness and gym going to ease us into something that we both like. She's tried getting me into reading and writing but in all honesty nothing seems to work. The previous issues aside I'm not sure where we go from here . Are you looking for reasons to exit the marriage? These things are silly. They have absolutely nothing to do with a sustainable partnership. I don't necessarily think you should pay a lot of attention to all the inflammatory remarks about paternity testing and your wife cheating on you, etc. IF she did, and you have no evidence of such a thing (dudes of a certain type might buy gifts in an effort to get in a woman's pants, not because they're already in there), then you know you are just as guilty. It sounds like there was a ton of immaturity early in your marriage. Maybe things are just in a different place now. I agree with DKT. Are you both rational enough to sit down and say, look, we've both made mistakes. Can we draw a line in the sand and make this phase II? Let's do this differently from now on? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
mikeylo Posted April 1, 2017 Share Posted April 1, 2017 On a side note. Me and my wife had a conversation today about that fact we have nothing in common. I'm a gym/crossfit going protein eating drinking Soldier. She's a book reading , story writing, fruit/veg eating vegan - who detests anything meat/protein orientated. We've not a great deal in common, I've tried helping into fitness and gym going to ease us into something that we both like. She's tried getting me into reading and writing but in all honesty nothing seems to work. The previous issues aside I'm not sure where we go from here . Duh ! This is such a small aspect that I can't even believe you have to say this. A relationship is much more than having things like this common or not. Having too many things common is boring. You being in similar life stages, goals is more important than a protein drink or any story book. When your daughter is off on her own , it's just 2 of you to spend life together while watching what you raised from afar. I agree, are you looking for reasons to quit as making it work is harder ? Grass isn't greener. Link to post Share on other sites
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