Appearing wealthy to attract dates.

[NYgages]

No experiance with them. Any thoughts on how to tailor my Gold Pile game to them?

 

I expect to attend a biz event that will have a number of Hispanic women.

They run from biz execs to lower managment, self employed big bucks to self employed few bucks.

 

I'm learning a few Spanish phrases (reports are that that all speak English very well) to be cute with.

 

In very general terms, I think you'll find them less streetwise then Black women, but more streetwise than white women.

 

If you manage to date one, you'll find them protected by family members, yet very determined to be independent.

 

They are very familiy oriented and care less than black women about what you can do for them alone.

 

In the interest of balance, I find white women to be spread out from family fanatics to me, me, me people. Never dated an Asian.

[lindya]

I find Mr. Pile mildly quilty, and his hateful detractors very quilty.

 

Counsel for the hateful detractors. Here are my clients....

 

 

Your Honour, on their behalf I seek leave to appeal that grossly biased decision.

[Outcast]

There's little wit to be found in the wilful manipulation of others' feelings. You may consider Machiavelli a guru; others of us despise the sorts of souls who love him.

[Gold Pile]

Blurring a few details to protect me (and her).

 

I attended this conference designed to promote biz contacts/networking between Hispanic business women and companies like mine.

 

Many of the ladies were self employed and eager to sell their products and services. So naturally they were friendly and attentive. On top of that, these women seem flirts by culture. So it wasn't easy to read them.

 

Off topic: I met one supplier with good references offering to supply my company with a product, at a better price than I'm paying now. If she can match the quality and quantities I'm getting now...she has a deal! Gold pile will save a pile.

 

 

All the self employed were interesting people. The "hispanic Biz persons of the year" employees were not as interesting at all. Clearly some were just titled to promote employer's PC agenda.

 

One such titled person took a shine to me, and eagerly consumed my Gold Pile game. Quick read is she's lazy and would rather mooch off a GP, than work.

I gave her a ride to her hotel, but didn't get lucky. She liked the car and couldn't miss the Wall St Journal, boat brochures, and one other prop that I won't mention.

 

She gave me her work and home numbers. I gave her my card, the one that says venture cap/ investor.

 

We established early on that her employer has nothing I need.

 

Looks good! Still looking for more tips on Hispanic women. She peaks English very well, but Spanish is her 1st. Moved here in early youth, born in P Rico.

[Aliso]

Girls don't care what kind of car you drive or what kind of clothes you wear - all they care about is your personality, and how you smell.

 

In time, they will see right through you.

 

Sorry.

[Topper]

How does this thread keep rearing it's ugly Head?

[Gold Pile]

Girls don't care what kind of car you drive or what kind of clothes you wear - all they care about is your personality, and how you smell.

 

In time, they will see right through you.

 

Sorry.

 

I hope that during this time, they will give up some sex, before seeing things clearly. So far it worked with one, I feel good about the one I'm working now.

[Gold Pile]

How does this thread keep rearing it's ugly Head?

 

This thread deals with games that certain men, and certain women engage in.

It's common, maybe ugly to you, but not everyone.

[Moose]

This thread deals with games that certain men, and certain women engage in.

It's common, maybe ugly to you, but not everyone.

One of these days, you're gonna wake up and realize what a dope you where, and how much damage you caused not only to these women, but yourself as well.

 

I'm not wishing hateful things on you, but I really do hope that you see/feel this before more innocents suffer, just because you want some poo-tang.......

[Topper]

Why are you putting so much time and energy on faking wealth? Is this some wierd revenge you need to play out? Did a woman once dump you for someone with more money then you?

Ids there something about you that most woman would find so repulsive that it could only be over looked by visions of a big money payoff? Is this some sort of a crusade for you or just a hobby?

If it just a way to get sex, trust me There are a lot less stressful ways to get a woman in bed. Oh and a real gold digger one that has her eyes on the big picture would simply have a Privet Investigator do a check on you for about $500.00. I don't care how good your act is or how good your props are The real gold digger will see your game in no time. I have lived and worked among the mega wealthy. I have seen woman like that at work. They know how to use their beauty and charm to get what they want. The smart ones know that they are a commodity and for the most part know what thier true value is worth. I have seen brillient men, men that are the leaders in their businesses with the ability to move Billions with a phone call or a signature, give over Condos, Homes Yachts and oh so much more to have that beautiful body and charm. Go to lunch at any of the Better places in Palm Springs and you will see what I mean.

[Outcast]

Privet Investigator

 

Is that a special sort that hides behind privet hedges?

[clandestinidad]

topper, he's preying on the ones who dont even have $500 to hire a private investigator.....its very sad to me.

[Gold Pile]

Topper, your definition of a GD is someone after mega millions. Mine is someone looking to move up to any higher level of wealth. Using sex in either case.

 

I once purchased some shrubs from a hot sales girl, but that's the closest I've ever come to a privet investigator.

 

I'm not repulsive (in looks at least ), I've never been dumped for a richer person.

 

I hope my "conquests" consider me a brief, harmless waste of time on their journey to marry wealth. I treat them politely and am fair enough in bed.

Time spent with me is reasonably fun.

[Topper]

Gold Pile, I now have a better Picture of your little game. I'm still not sure what your reward is for you. Is the reward getting That type of woman into bed or is it convincing her you have a bank roll?

Kat23 Is it really preying on those woman? You have to understand that there is segment of the female population that see men as only a source of money or a way to move up the social ladder. Love romance and all that take back seat to the all mighty $ It is a story as old as time it's self. It so common that when a younger woman plays an older man and takes his money it is seen more as a bad joke then a Crime. They will say the old fool got what he ask for. On the other hand if a man uses love to con a woman out of her money it is a disgrace a crime and he should be locked up. There are plenty of woman out there who are more then willing to trade on their looks and sexuality to better themselves. Some are no more then whores others play a much higher game. In the end it's all sex for money . It may not be politically correct to say this but it is very true.

In his own warped way G Pile might be rebelling against this very old sexual game.

[Outcast]

So then, Topper, in your moral equation two wrongs = right? If people behave badly, then so must you back? Sounds like a great foundation for society.

[red princess]

Rebel is too good a nname for him.

 

I met a man once, He was or faked being rich. Yes I wanted him for the money, but thought we might make a happy life too.

 

After sex, he moved on.

 

I felt used.

[Topper]

Outcast, You Have miss read my post or could it be I was unclear? I am simply saying I understand who these woman are and I also understand his little game. My point is they both have a warped perception of relationships. So my equation looks more like 2 wrongs= bad sex and even worse relationships

[Outcast]

This bit

Kat23 Is it really preying on those woman? You have to understand that there is segment of the female population that see men as only a source of money or a way to move up the social ladder

sounded as though you were constructing a rationale. If you weren't then my apologies.

[RainyDayWoman]

i think this thread is a huge joke and everyone is just feeding his flames.

 

but i do have to say, i agree with most of you about bmw's...they used to be a "look at me, i'm wealthy" prop, but they seem to serve better these days as presents for graduating teenagers. when i see a guy pull up next to me in a bmw and wink, i think "my god, how much cheesier can you get?" and then i blow him away in my own car.

[Topper]

Not a rational; It was more pointing out to Kat23 The type of woman G Pile says he is going after are not victims. They choose to play in that world.

Rainy Day , It might be a joke But still there is some out there who play these games. There are those out there that see sex as a trading chip The Guy who only wants to get laid and then the woman who will only have sex if there is something for her to gain from it.

By The way how do you feel about guys who drive Pick Ups?

[Outcast]

The type of woman G Pile says he is going after are not victims. They choose to play in that world.

 

That's an assumption, and an unfair one. There may be some manipulative gold-diggers, but he's not after them. He's after the simpler sort of person who actually would think someone with a BMW might be a good prospect as a partner since he has accomplished what maybe nobody she's known has.

 

Bottom line is that any sort of belief that every woman who falls for this con's bs 'deserves what she gets' is really unfair. Has it occurred to any of the braniacs that maybe these women like him anyway and because he's so obviously impressed with himself, they pat that bit of his ego just because he seems to need it?

[Gold Pile]

i think this thread is a huge joke and everyone is just feeding his flames.

 

but i do have to say, i agree with most of you about bmw's...they used to be a "look at me, i'm wealthy" prop, but they seem to serve better these days as presents for graduating teenagers. when i see a guy pull up next to me in a bmw and wink, i think "my god, how much cheesier can you get?" and then i blow him away in my own car.

 

Don't do the wink myself, I hold up a jar of grey poupon mustard and give her a smile and a thumps up.

 

In my younger days, I had sign I could hold up to show the ladies my cell number. A car full of young women often led to a call...but it was just for laughs.

 

Now, the over 30 yrs women in my range wouldn't respond to that (I think?)

[Gold Pile]

topper, he's preying on the ones who dont even have $500 to hire a private investigator.....its very sad to me.

 

What ever happened to trust!?

[clandestinidad]

Don't do the wink myself, I hold up a jar of grey poupon mustard and give her a smile and a thumps up.

 

What ever happened to trust!?

 

LOL....I much prefer your silliness GP Thats the stuff I like!!!

 

remember the Polaner All-Fruit commercials?!?! haha

[Gold Pile]

Thanks Kat. I do have a silly side, and it's nice to know some folks appreciate it.