Should I or should I not..?

[Southern Sun]

Only a person who has never had a son could conceive of doing this.

 

Is his mother (your MIL...your FIL's...um, your lover's wife) still in the picture?

 

If she is and she were to uncover this disaster, she might absolutely lose her mind.

 

If my son's WIFE was having an affair with MY HUSBAND, I don't know who I might lunge at first.

 

You participate in ruining my marriage, that's one thing. But you destroy my son while simultaneously inviting yourself into my M? That is another matter altogether.

 

You have no concept of the destruction you are ushering into their lives. If your FIL was posting on this board, I would deliver a huge 2 x 4 to him. He deserves it. But you are here, so this is what you get. This man would likely be absolutely banished from the family and the children hurt forever.

[HappyAgain2014]

So if your husband decides to sleep with your mom or sister, it be be ok?

 

You know you're doing the worst possible thing yet have intention of stopping. I think this is your way of trumping your husband's choice to sleep with another woman. It takes the term of screwing someone to a whole new level.

 

Get a divorce. If you can't handle differing work hours without agreeing to sex with others, your marriage won't last through real challenges you're yet to face.

[Superchicken]

Basically, it boils down to whether or not YOU think its wrong.

Most think it is wrong to "Rumble in the Jungle" with your father in law, but, its your decision, as long as you had a agreement with your husband to do so.

If that contained NO guidelines, then you cant be bound to not enter that avenue with the in law.

 

 

However, it may be a better option for you, to be the first to tell your husband who your getting to "Drill for Oil" on your property, rather than from someone else.

Poop is hard to remove from a blanket.. And the fans spinning quite fast !.

 

 

As for my opinion, I have none. Its yours and your husbands life, and both your decisions. If it works for you BOTH, great. Enjoy it.

 

 

Oh, and there's nothing wrong with guys (Or Girls) over 50 !.

 

 

Good luck !.

 

 

Ted.

[Just a Guy]

Hi Pristine, I once read on an alternative lifestyle forum about something similar to your situation. The only thing is that there the husband was encouraging his wife to sleep with his step father and eventually she left her husband to marry the step father. The former husband's mother had been married to his step father but had recently died.

All kinds of things are possible where human sexuality is concerned. However, you and your husband had an agreement that you would disclose who you were sleeping with to the other partner. Your husband has probably kept his part of the bargain by disclosing the fact that he is sleeping with his coworker but you have not disclosed to him who you are sleeping with because you know a) It is wrong and b) By disclosing you know that you will nuke your marriage which is something you do not want yo do.

What you are in effect, doing is having a clandestine affair , like any of the other affairs that people post about on this forum with the danger of exposure leading to explosive consequences. Exposure will result in your husband's family shattering into smithereens, your marriage getting nuked and your own family of origin being completely embarrassed by your shenanigans. The possible fall out is just too severe to contemplate and just not worth the few orgasms you are getting with a fifty five year old man! Just let your brain do some solid thinking and get yourself out of this situation. It is so not worth it.